Why I Think Women Should Masturbate More

Women are beautiful and unique creatures. We come in all different shapes and sizes all of which carry beauty. Our bodies are designed to tolerate high amounts of pain levels, our bodies create and sustain life. We carry not only the power of carrying and birthing life, but our bodies also create milk to feed the life we can carry. Our bodies are different and not always easy to conquer. Having said that, I find it important we, as women, understand and know every inch of our own bodies and how it works. What feels good to one of us, may not feel good to others. Women cannot expect men to know these things about our bodies, therefore, it’s important we know and are able to pass this knowledge on to any lovers we may take. By masturbating, we can learn more about our bodies, the where's, what’s, how fast, how hard, how long.

Getting a woman off isn’t an easy task. As a matter of fact, in comparison to the opposite sex, it’s down right near impossible. It’s less a struggle when a woman knows her body and can give direction to her partner. It’s been my personal experience that the opposite sex is actually eager to learn and even find it to be a turn on when a woman takes charge between the sheets.

The problem is that most women have been conditioned into being embarrassed or a bit shy when it comes to sex. We’re told it’s not “lady-like” to discuss such matters. Or even taught that sex is a woman’s “burden to bare.” But who makes that rule? Oppression is not something women are ignorant to. We are by far the most oppressed minority world wide. But, sex and knowing our own body as well as what we find pleasurable is something no one can physically strip from us. Sex isn’t a “burden to bare,” or some dirty little secret to be swept under the rug and never discussed like some old family curse. It’s literally the source of all life. Sex is how we all came to be. Two people had sex and now, here we are. So what is, or who is, the embarrassment for? Women, as the portal of life, are natural born teachers. We teach children to walk, talk, read, learn, manners and so much more. Behind the bedroom door, or whatever door you and a partner find yourselves behind, is very much a teachable moment.

But first we must learn it for ourselves by breaking free of this idea society bestows upon us that it’s not our place to know more than a man when it comes to intimate relations. We have fought for the rights to our bodies for decades now and teaching our daughter’s to feel ashamed of their bodies in a sexual nature is just one more way we loose control over ourselves and give way to the mystical world of sex to continue to be more a “man’s expertise” then that of our own. “It takes two to Tango,” right? Well, if there are two involved in the act, why should only one derive pleasure from the experience?

In closing, know your body ladies, and pass the knowledge on. If you want to experience pleasure during your sexual conquest then you must know how to achieve it, where your clitoris is located, and just how much friction you can take in order to reach climax. Once you know these things about your body, you can use your knowledge to increase pleasure in your sex-life.