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How to Throw a Swingers Party
In New York and Los Angeles, there's a major community of swingers who throw parties, have sex, and actually look good doing it all. In fact, these events are often incredibly selective and are someti...
Annie Kiely2 years ago
Best Sex Positions for Lesbians
One of the best parts of getting to know a new partner is taking the opportunity to explore what each of you like, and experiment with what works for you. That said, you don't necessarily have to go i...
Susan McCord2 years ago
Are You Good in Bed?
If you don’t want to hear the answer to this question, chances are you may not be that good in bed! Becoming a good lover starts from wanting to be. Have you ever noticed how some people just ooze sen...
Susan McCord2 years ago
50 Sex & Intimacy Tips for Men and Women
Regardless of whether you are in a relationship or just dating at the moment these tips are something to implement into your sex-life. Many of us forget about the little things that we loved about eac...
How To (Gently) Introduce Rough Sex in Bed
The average person is into some kinky, rough things in bed, yet so often people are content to indulge in casual, vanilla sex. An individual may be into some rough stuff, want to be thrust into the pi...
Skunk Uzeki2 years ago
How To Fix a Dead Bedroom
Most of us would never knowingly commit to a romantic relationship which had absolutely no sex going on whatsoever. In fact, it's one of the most common fears men have when they're walking down the ai...
Galen Fous MTP2 years ago
What to Do With Your Nice Guy When She Begs For Your Bad Boy
Women's sexuality and its overt, liberated expression is on the rise. It is pouring out of the once forbidden, obscured shadows and into the sexual mainstream. For many women this means learning about...
Mickey Finn2 years ago
Pussy Control
Guys, we love it. We crave it. We want it as bad as we can want things (speaking to hetero males, of course). The problem is that we don’t know a damn thing about it and most of us don’t seem to be in...
The Ultimate Guide to VR Porn
Digital media has always been on the front lines of providing new forms of porn for the masses, so, when virtual reality first hit the market, many speculated how long it would be before they could ex...
Katya Krakowska2 years ago
8 Places to Have Sex Outside the Bedroom
There are times when conventional run of the mill bedroom sex doesn’t quite put the fizz in your soda, just like the British couple who went viral this week, after CCTV footage showed the randy pair g...
Dr. Harmon Love2 years ago
How to Keep Romance Alive When You Live Together
You’ve taken the next step and you and your significant other have moved in together. This move can be an exciting and stressful time, and it can bring changes to your relationship. How do you keep ro...
Beca Sayers 2 years ago
Why I Walked
It’s our anniversary. Celebrating two years together and I should be ecstatic. Wait, no that’s not the word. Maybe surprised? No that doesn’t sound good. Maybe the word is happy. Suddenly, that word s...
Sheera Lee2 years ago
Save Your Money With These Creative 50 Cheap Date Ideas
Whether it’s your anniversary, sweetheart’s birthday, or just a plain old Tuesday – these 50 cheap date ideas will keep your romance alive (but on a budget). Work on a fun DIY project together. Purcha...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
What Makes a Man Want To Commit?
What makes a man want to commit? This is a common but misguided question that can begin stirring in a woman's mind as early as before the first date, and usually indicates you're approaching dating from the wrong direction. I have seen firsthand how easy it is to have your self-esteem squished to the level that you approach every date thinking that this could be The One. No matter what anyone says about singleness being a time of unbridled adventure and carefree fun (which it can be) it can also...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
Welcome to the Friend Zone
Many men who are physically attracted to a woman end up exactly where they don’t want to be in said woman’s life. Welcome to the friend zone. For the most part, this is a matter of poor communication; Think about it- it’s not that you have a sticker on your forehead that reads ‘FRIEND’ … though it often feels that way. The problems usually stem from the very first interaction with a woman you really like. You like this girl so much but believe that she’s out of your league, so you don’t pursue h...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
How To Tell Him You Want To Commit
You probably worry that if you mention commitment you’re going to scare him off. That he’ll think you’re desperate or needy. One of my greatest grievances with modern dating is that women have been primed to feel ashamed of wanting commitment (and equally ashamed if they want to keep things casual!) You’re worried that he'll judge you so you hold back on what you want, because men like the chase... right? The problem with this mindset is that by hiding your needs you’re not doing a great job of ...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
What To Do If She Cancels Last Minute
You’ve got a date this evening with a girl you’ve wanted to go out with for ages. You’re thinking about what to talk about and how to go in for the kiss. Then-your phone flashes: ‘Heyy I’m sorry but I’m feeling really tired tonight, do you mind if we rain check?’ Last minute cancellations are terribly frustrating; Not only are your evening plans ruined, but you worry that if she cancels this date, the chances of her making it out for another date are slim. The key here to avoid dejection is to a...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
How To Get More Guys To Approach You
I know the movies told you that ‘One day your Prince will come!’ So when you’re sitting alone at a bar, no one is coming up to speak to you and you're getting no matches on Tinder, this can all feel mortally disappointing. I blame Disney movies for filling our minds with unrealistic expectations about how our man will find us. We expect men to all be swashbuckling heroes, who decide at first sight we’re the one for them and carry us off into the sunset. This is quite a lot to ask of your average...