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Here’s some simple advice to make your trip more enjoyable and comfortable.
1. Look for the rules.
All clubs will have different rules. These are in place to protect you and the other patrons. They may differ from club to club, and some can even differ depending on the night or the event. Make sure you read through these and understand them before you go inside.
2. Pack a bag.
Always pack a small overnight bag to take with you. You should stock this with clean towels and toiletries such as soap, shampoo, toothpaste, and mouthwash. Having a change of clothing, including undergarments is also advisable. This way you will have everything you need to shower and change before you leave the club.
3. On And Off Premise
There are two main types of club events—on premise and off premise. An on premise club event will take place in the privacy of the club itself. On premise events are more open, and you can have sex at the club. An off premise event means the club has rented another location or planned another outing. These will be strict no sex events.
Believe it or not, swingers don’t just hang out nude all the time. Most clubs encourage you to dress classy and sexy without revealing too much. If the evening progresses for you and your partner you can always put on something sexier once inside and in private. Some clubs will have an all nude area, but others may require a dress code if you are outside of a private room.
Many people find that having to tell others that they swing is something that is not always easy. There are people that tend to cast judgment on those that have a different sexual orientation than them. Swinging is not one of the more common ways to have sex so make sure that you are ready to answer a few questions.
5. Right Time
It is a good idea for you to make sure that you do this at the right time. Don’t blurt it out in the middle of a fight or while you are trying to get them riled up. They are going to be less likely to take you seriously if you tell them this way. Sit them down and tell them that you are a swinger at a time when they are not busy and when they will not be easily distracted.
It is always good for you to make sure that you let them ask you as many questions as they want. They will feel a lot better about what it is that you do as long as you are able to show them that you know what you are doing and that you are being responsible.
Make sure that you know what it is that you are going to say before you begin. It is always smart to have a well thought out speech where only you are talking. Tell your family that you want to finish what it is that you are going to say and then allow them to say what they want to say.
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