You Want to Put What Where?!

Anal sex is way more scary than it sounds. I know, thinking about something up your asshole is kinda unsettling. It can also be one of the most pleasurable experiences you could ever have. If you are an anal virgin and are really to give it a go, or you just want some pointers on making the experience better, try out the following tips. These pointers will help ease and allow you to enjoy what could be one of the most pleasurable experiences you'll have.

Get that asshole lubed and ready.

Make sure that you have a good lubricant. They even have special lubricants made just for anal sex. You can get them online or from a sex shop. The lube should be water based so sliding is optimal. Also, get that tiny whole open. Start with rubbing your asshole, finger it yourself or have your partner do it. Toys are great in helping prepare for the experience. A butt plug or anal beads get you ready and comfortable for the experience.

Get yourself into the most comfortable position for entry.

Always get into a position that you feel the most comfortable while your partner enters your backdoor. You can easily feel as they start to enter what position will be the most comfortable. You can always change into a different positions afterwards.

Relax!!

Yes, it is going to feel strange at first. You are going to want to clench up naturally, but you must relax! The entrance into your asshole is the most difficult part, relaxing your muscles down there as best as you can helps entry and feels so much better than if you are tense. Have your partner enter slowly as you relax. After this, it only gets better trust me!

Play with yourself while your partner is thrusting.

You can have some of the most intense orgasms when you masturbate as your partner is working your ass. Rub your clitoris and feel all the pleasure.

If you feel like something is not right, stop and try again.

If you just cannot bear it, then certainly stop and give yourself a break and if you feel up to it, try again. There is no harm in taking it slow, you need to feel at ease and comfortable when this is a first time experience for you.

Be confident!

Okay so we all know the horror stories of embarrassing things that happen during sex. This is no exception, sounds and bodily fluids and smells can be a thing that arises. There is no need to feel embarrassed. Be confident and just go with the flow. Your partner will be into enjoying the moment with you and will quickly forget about any tiny fart that comes out if it should occur.

Anal sex is very intimate and can be a real bonding experience for couples. It is something that many couples choose to incorporate into there regular sex every so often. Another tip for after is to take a shower together to clean up. It's very intimate and can be a great and pleasing way to keep the passion going. It is also important to keep clean and make sure that you never go from the rear into the vagina for obvious germ reasons. Anal sex is no longer a taboo subject today. If you are curious about it, give it a try and use the above tips. It is one of those things that could easily be a new favorite thing to incorporate into your sex life with your partner.