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Why to Match Heels and Lingerie

Extra confidence and a proven ability to increase libido are some of the many reasons to match heels and lingerie.

By Lizzie BoudoirPublished 8 years ago 5 min read
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Think about the last time you watched bondage porn. The silicone-pumped, bare-naked kitty threw open the bathroom door and revealed a long riding crop. A spray tanned, fake-accented male tried to bounce out of the zip ties tying him to a chair. Kitty put her leg on the tub, moving her crotch to the center of the screen. In that moment, what did you notice? Her matching lingerie and high heels? Good. You should notice. It’s one of the most important parts of the scene. Without matching lingerie, garters, hose, and heels, where would your attention be? Probably counting tiles on the floor, or comparing your ceiling trim to the bathroom’s cornice molding. Matching makes the scene, and it should be the central feature in your sexy wardrobe. Without it, you are Sandra from after the ninth-grade dance, wearing a pink bra and orange panties with purple butterflies.

A pair of glowing red heels are far less exciting without matching underwear. Research has shown that wearing heels to bed increases libido. However, most of the articles on the topic cater to men. Women wearing high heels increases sexual desire in men. But we knew this—long legs, perky boobs, and a gait that shakes that tight ass. Men love all the reasons to wear high heels. But what about the women? Why should women wear heels and matching underwear? God knows that a good set of lingerie can cost a week’s worth of happy meals. It gets even more expensive if you’re buying to match. But there are benefits to matching heels to panties. Just think—if your heels match your ass—then you’ll cum fast.

Matching Makes You Feel Sexy

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A sexual proverb: If it’s good for her, it’s going to be good for him. What makes it good for her? The right frame of mind. Matching outfits are confidence boosters. You don’t have to match all the time. When working from home on that novel you’ve put off, the kids are at school, and the man is at work, take that bra off and fly willy nilly. But when it’s business time, match your favorite bra and panties, and clear the orgasm-preventing junk mail.

Shoes that match lingerie act like shoes that match a Sunday dress. A set of expensive lingerie isn’t complete without the shoes to match. Matching makes you feel like the confident, sexy woman you are—a woman that men can’t resist.

When preparing for a night of delicious fun, wear matching shoes and underwear. If for nothing else, it will make you feel pretty. And when the time is right—sexy. If a woman feels sexy, she’ll act sexy. So bust out those wallets and fork over some bones for matching clothes. It’s worth it for both parties.

Matching Makes You Feel Mature

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Nobody wants to feel like a child when they’re slap-and-tickling in the sheets. Sex is for adults. Teenagers do it to feel more adult. Adults do it to quell their existential crises and feed into the illusion they call love. Whether you’re already old and dusty or young and supple, matching your underwear and heels will make your feel like the burlesque office babe that you've always wanted to be.

Matching underwearespecially single-colored, lacy, girdle-held underwearmakes you feel like a full-blown, sexy adult. You wouldn’t wear a purple skirt and blue blouse to a day job, so don’t wear hunting-orange panties and a puce top to a blow job. You’re a big girl now, and it’s time to align your skivvies.

High Heels for High Rising

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Leaving high heels on during sex is a statistically-proven turn-on. The most obvious reason is that it increases the female aesthetic. While initially created for Persian horsemen, women adopted the high heel because of the opulent and grandiose lifestyle it assumed. Today, women wear high heels because they lengthen legs, make feet seem smaller, tighten the breast and buttocks, and forces a seductive stride that has men following like dogs in heat.

Picture this: Your man gets done mowing the lawn. He smells like gasoline and fresh-cut grass. He walks through the garage door and sees you perked up in 5" stilettos with both hands on the counter. You look like Megan Fox just opened the hood of a 600 horsepower sex missile. He rips off his sleeveless Metallica t-shirt and plants a soul kiss. Both hands wrap around your heel-perked ass and pull you into him. He’s already primed and ready for lust-and-thrust. You chase him up the stairs, giggling and tripping a little. He props himself up on the pillows while you strip off your shorts, stepping out of them and crawling towards him. “Nice matching underwear,” he’ll say, and you take off his belt and push him into your mouth like a starving camper.

Not only do heels satisfy, but they also play into the illusion. What do strippers, porno secretaries, and Bond girls have in common? High heels. When the passion heats up to the point where there is no time to take off every article of clothing, leaving on shoes is the only option. Besides, keeping clothes on during sex is another statistically-proven turn-on. Open up your blouse to reveal one nipple, hike up your skirt, and tug your panties to the side to incite a feeling of spontaneous, irreverent sex. Keep your high heels on the bed so he can look down and see them.

High Heels Are Sexy

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One look at the magazines in a Walmart checkout line, and you’ll know that women worry about sex. I see women on the train and in coffee shops reading articles about how to turn on men. Most men wouldn’t be caught dead reading about how to turn on a woman. For couples that want to spice up their sex lives, try acting a little sluttier. Spice it up. Throw them down on the bed and say something sexy.

Walk into Barnes and Noble, past the teen-vampire romance, and there is an entire section devoted to BDSM bondage romance. Bondage sex is all the rage, and just the preview of Fifty Shades of Grey will teach you that high heels are a key element in slave and master games. Pain and pleasure sensors are childhood friends, and both come out to play when you leave on the heels to straddle your man. Please keep the heels away from his man organ!

Release your inner-freak by wearing high heels and matching lacy underwear to bed. Curious men can also wear heels while the woman boasts a strap-onif that’s your thing. Successful relationships harbor trust, and the bedroom is the best place to experiment and rub out your insecurities.

Takeaways

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Money can’t buy happiness, but it can buy matching shoes and underwear. Isn’t that the same thing? Confidence, ladies! Sexiness (especially after years of marriage) is something that must be tuned. Victoria’s big secret is that matching underwear leads to better sex. Throw some matching heels into the mix, and you can expect a little extra heat in the bedroom.

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Lizzie Boudoir

Thrice married, in love once, overly romantic, and hypersexual.

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