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The Joys of Anal

How to Relax and Have Amazing Anal Sex

By Meranda WatleyPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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Sex should be fun and exciting....all sex....even anal. When the subject of anal sex comes up some people tense up and are unwilling to give it a try. Let me tell you, anal can be just as good, if not better than vaginal sex! Being willing to explore every area of yours and your partners body is part of really great, and freeing sex. Here's how to loosen up, so to speak, and enjoy taking it up the ass!

When it comes to having sex you should be open, in every sense of the word. Open your mind and your ass to the possibility of something new. If you're thinking about getting into ass play it's important to remember to relax, tensing up makes the experience painful and unenjoyable for both parties. If it's your first time partaking in butt lovin', do something to loosen up. Have a glass of wine, or your favorite cocktail, take some deep breaths and psych yourself up for a fun, new experience. If you're nervous about the experience you can use a little lube to loosen things up and create a slippery experience. I prefer my anal sans lube...but I'm an experienced anal aficionado. I like the feeling of being filled up, every orifice occupied, I will often request a finger or two in my pussy while my ass is being pounded, this heightens the experience and gives the complete sensation; I’m getting a little ahead of myself. If it's your first time you'll want to go slow, get really worked up. Start with some oral, make sure the pussy is nice and juicy, if you're female. Once you're nice and worked up have your partner put some lube on their fingers and massage your ass hole, putting a fingertip in is a nice ice breaker. Relax, relax, relax. A tense ass makes it harder for your partner to penetrate you and makes it uncomfortable for you to be penetrated. I prefer anal while lying on my back, with my back arched and my legs around my partners waist. You can also be on all fours or lying completely on your stomach. The position can be changed throughout the sexcursion! I like being on my back because it allows me to be able to stimulate my clit while my ass is being fucked and will typically make me cum with a delicious intensity! Have him start with the tip, take a deep breath and relax, as he enters you release your breath and allow yourself to experience the pleasure of anal penetration. Rub your clit while he's going in your ass, start by focusing on the sensation of your clit being stimulated and then focus on the sensation of the dick going in and out of your ass. It's a different sensation, the ass is full of nerves and this can be quite pleasurable if you allow it. As you take more and more of the dick in your ass allow yourself to move in rhythm with the dick. Rock your hips and feel yourself being filled up! Have him put one or two fingers in your pussy as you take more and more of the dick. Ass occupied, pussy occupied, and clit being rubbed…what could possibly be better? Allow yourself to cum, having and orgasm with a dick in your ass is an AMAZING experience. An orgasm from anal feels different and is sometimes more intense. It’s an experience everyone should have. The key to really great anal sex is to relax and have fun. Allow yourself to enjoy the experience. I love having my ass filled up with hot, sticky cum, I highly recommend you try it.

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Meranda Watley

I am a free spirit who loves adventures and exploration.

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