relationships

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Matt Swecker2 years ago
The Paul Walker Effect
I have a theory about attraction. The theory is best illustrated by a scene at the beginning of the original "The Fast and the Furious." Paul Walker (may he rest in peace) plays Brian O'Connor, a man who apparently really enjoys the tuna salad sandwich at the place of employment of his crush, Mia. In the movie, he goes to the diner day after day for the shitty tuna sandwich (on white bread without crust) and because she thinks he's hot stuff, she finds it endearing that he visits her every day a...
Dr. Harmon Love2 years ago
Benefits of Being In a Relationship
Have you ever thought about the benefits of being in a relationship? Being in a long term relationship might not be everybody’s cup of tea. Some people might prefer to keep their options open, others ...
Sheera Lee2 years ago
Save Your Money With These Creative 50 Cheap Date Ideas
Whether it’s your anniversary, sweetheart’s birthday, or just a plain old Tuesday – these 50 cheap date ideas will keep your romance alive (but on a budget). Work on a fun DIY project together. Purcha...
Dr. Harmon Love2 years ago
Why Men Shouldn't Be Afraid of Sex Toys
Sex is great, and sex toys can make it even better, but many men seem to be intimidated by sex toys while their partners want them to know why men shouldn’t be afraid of toys. There are a number of re...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
What Makes a Man Want To Commit?
What makes a man want to commit? This is a common but misguided question that can begin stirring in a woman's mind as early as before the first date, and usually indicates you're approaching dating from the wrong direction. I have seen firsthand how easy it is to have your self-esteem squished to the level that you approach every date thinking that this could be The One. No matter what anyone says about singleness being a time of unbridled adventure and carefree fun (which it can be) it can also...
Anne St. Marie2 years ago
Why Foreplay is Slowly Becoming a Thing of the Past
Foreplay. The word quickly brings to mind a certain couple and situation . . . usually, a man taking a few minutes to ‘warm up’ his lady before the actual act of penetration, perhaps with slow and ind...
Frank White2 years ago
What Is a Sugar Baby?
High tuition, can be a thing of the past for college graduates. When your parents have had enough of you, there is a new daddy or mommy waiting for willing sugar baby wannabes. Apparently I have been ...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
Welcome to the Friend Zone
Many men who are physically attracted to a woman end up exactly where they don’t want to be in said woman’s life. Welcome to the friend zone. For the most part, this is a matter of poor communication; Think about it- it’s not that you have a sticker on your forehead that reads ‘FRIEND’ … though it often feels that way. The problems usually stem from the very first interaction with a woman you really like. You like this girl so much but believe that she’s out of your league, so you don’t pursue h...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
How To Tell Him You Want To Commit
You probably worry that if you mention commitment you’re going to scare him off. That he’ll think you’re desperate or needy. One of my greatest grievances with modern dating is that women have been primed to feel ashamed of wanting commitment (and equally ashamed if they want to keep things casual!) You’re worried that he'll judge you so you hold back on what you want, because men like the chase... right? The problem with this mindset is that by hiding your needs you’re not doing a great job of ...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
What To Do If She Cancels Last Minute
You’ve got a date this evening with a girl you’ve wanted to go out with for ages. You’re thinking about what to talk about and how to go in for the kiss. Then-your phone flashes: ‘Heyy I’m sorry but I’m feeling really tired tonight, do you mind if we rain check?’ Last minute cancellations are terribly frustrating; Not only are your evening plans ruined, but you worry that if she cancels this date, the chances of her making it out for another date are slim. The key here to avoid dejection is to a...
Natasha Sydor2 years ago
Sensory Speed Dating: Or That Time Someone Sniffed My Armpit And Maybe I Liked It
Instant gratification. A term we have all come to demand through life’s daily trivialities. Fueled in part by technology’s content expansion, we have become creatures of consumption; where, thanks to our personal pocket A.I.s, knowledge isn’t a privilege, it’s an expectation. However satisfying instant gratification may be, it should not be applied to every aspect of our lives – especially our dating lives. My advice to you: get off of Tinder, Grindr, and overpriced dating sites, and tune into G...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
Perfect Text To Send Your Ex
Girl … if you’re asking this question we need to get you back on the right track. I understand how hard break ups can be, particularly that painful first six to eight weeks when your life has been turned upside down and you’re dealing with the grief over someone who has disappeared from your life. It can be natural to try and fill the space he left by stalking him via social media hatching plans to get him back. It's natural, but definitely not the wisest plan of action! If you’re reading this n...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
How To Get More Guys To Approach You
I know the movies told you that ‘One day your Prince will come!’ So when you’re sitting alone at a bar, no one is coming up to speak to you and you're getting no matches on Tinder, this can all feel mortally disappointing. I blame Disney movies for filling our minds with unrealistic expectations about how our man will find us. We expect men to all be swashbuckling heroes, who decide at first sight we’re the one for them and carry us off into the sunset. This is quite a lot to ask of your average...
Lizzie Boudoir2 years ago
Sexual Health Insurance
The insurance man was good-looking, Mrs. Charlotte Plyner had to admit, kind of an appealing type, tall, smiling in that open, even-toothed way. And from the way he was looking at her, he had more tha...
Lenny Legman2 years ago
Importance of Sexual Communication
You may not agree with me, but I think that for some time now there has been much too much emphasis placed on the sexual needs of women and not nearly enough on the sexual problems of men. Right now, ...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
How Do You Know If She Likes You?
This is another one of those ‘if you’re asking the question you’re already losing’ questions. I don’t want you to spend another day stuck in your head, thinking about whether she likes you rather than asking her out in real life. I know it can be frustrating to feel like you’re stuck admiring that cute girl in your class or who you see every week and never quite know the right steps to take. However, I can tell you that instead of questioning, ‘does she like me?’ ‘would she go on a date with me?...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
What to Say if You Don’t Want Commitment
All men want to play the field and all women want marriage and babies, right? Wrong. Assumptions are one of the ‘fun destroyers’ of dating and relationships. So if you’re a man (or a woman) and you’ve decided commitment isn’t for you–at least right now–don’t assume this is going to be a major bombshell for whoever you’re dating. It actually can come across pretty cool and self-aware to be able to acknowledge what you’re able to offer another person and what you aren't, and there’s nothing inhere...