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Katya Krakowska2 years ago
8 Places to Have Sex Outside the Bedroom
There are times when conventional run of the mill bedroom sex doesn’t quite put the fizz in your soda, just like the British couple who went viral this week, after CCTV footage showed the randy pair g...
Dr. Harmon Love2 years ago
How to Keep Romance Alive When You Live Together
You’ve taken the next step and you and your significant other have moved in together. This move can be an exciting and stressful time, and it can bring changes to your relationship. How do you keep ro...
Beca Sayers 2 years ago
Why I Walked
It’s our anniversary. Celebrating two years together and I should be ecstatic. Wait, no that’s not the word. Maybe surprised? No that doesn’t sound good. Maybe the word is happy. Suddenly, that word s...
Sheera Lee2 years ago
Save Your Money With These Creative 50 Cheap Date Ideas
Whether it’s your anniversary, sweetheart’s birthday, or just a plain old Tuesday – these 50 cheap date ideas will keep your romance alive (but on a budget). Work on a fun DIY project together. Purcha...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
What Makes a Man Want To Commit?
What makes a man want to commit? This is a common but misguided question that can begin stirring in a woman's mind as early as before the first date, and usually indicates you're approaching dating from the wrong direction. I have seen firsthand how easy it is to have your self-esteem squished to the level that you approach every date thinking that this could be The One. No matter what anyone says about singleness being a time of unbridled adventure and carefree fun (which it can be) it can also...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
Welcome to the Friend Zone
Many men who are physically attracted to a woman end up exactly where they don’t want to be in said woman’s life. Welcome to the friend zone. For the most part, this is a matter of poor communication; Think about it- it’s not that you have a sticker on your forehead that reads ‘FRIEND’ … though it often feels that way. The problems usually stem from the very first interaction with a woman you really like. You like this girl so much but believe that she’s out of your league, so you don’t pursue h...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
How To Tell Him You Want To Commit
You probably worry that if you mention commitment you’re going to scare him off. That he’ll think you’re desperate or needy. One of my greatest grievances with modern dating is that women have been primed to feel ashamed of wanting commitment (and equally ashamed if they want to keep things casual!) You’re worried that he'll judge you so you hold back on what you want, because men like the chase... right? The problem with this mindset is that by hiding your needs you’re not doing a great job of ...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
What To Do If She Cancels Last Minute
You’ve got a date this evening with a girl you’ve wanted to go out with for ages. You’re thinking about what to talk about and how to go in for the kiss. Then-your phone flashes: ‘Heyy I’m sorry but I’m feeling really tired tonight, do you mind if we rain check?’ Last minute cancellations are terribly frustrating; Not only are your evening plans ruined, but you worry that if she cancels this date, the chances of her making it out for another date are slim. The key here to avoid dejection is to a...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
Perfect Text To Send Your Ex
Girl … if you’re asking this question we need to get you back on the right track. I understand how hard break ups can be, particularly that painful first six to eight weeks when your life has been turned upside down and you’re dealing with the grief over someone who has disappeared from your life. It can be natural to try and fill the space he left by stalking him via social media hatching plans to get him back. It's natural, but definitely not the wisest plan of action! If you’re reading this n...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
How To Get More Guys To Approach You
I know the movies told you that ‘One day your Prince will come!’ So when you’re sitting alone at a bar, no one is coming up to speak to you and you're getting no matches on Tinder, this can all feel mortally disappointing. I blame Disney movies for filling our minds with unrealistic expectations about how our man will find us. We expect men to all be swashbuckling heroes, who decide at first sight we’re the one for them and carry us off into the sunset. This is quite a lot to ask of your average...
Hayley Quinn2 years ago
How Do You Know If She Likes You?
This is another one of those ‘if you’re asking the question you’re already losing’ questions. I don’t want you to spend another day stuck in your head, thinking about whether she likes you rather than asking her out in real life. I know it can be frustrating to feel like you’re stuck admiring that cute girl in your class or who you see every week and never quite know the right steps to take. However, I can tell you that instead of questioning, ‘does she like me?’ ‘would she go on a date with me?...
Filthy Staff2 years ago
Write For Filthy Today
Filthy has now joined the Vocal platform, letting people from all over the world contribute their thoughts, recommendations, advice, and stories to the edgy community.
Samantha Bentley2 years ago
How to Be Better in Bed - A Porn Star's Advice
Kind of a click baity title because I know that everyone, no matter how awesome you think you are at sex, wants to be better. Just double check there isn’t anything they missed off the old check list....
Frank White2 years ago
History of Sperm Banks
A Midwestern grandfather makes a deposit at the sperm bank to assure the continuance of his family name should his son prove sterile. In the East, a 69-year-old bachelor millionaire stores semen so th...
Benjamin Wareing2 years ago
Sex Through the Seasons
Sex can be a really varied experience, changing with kinks, turn-ons, situation, risk and intimacy with your partner. But, did you know your sex lives are influenced by the season of the year you're i...
Lizzie Boudoir2 years ago
How to Start a Love Affair
One of the most exciting things about being single is that you never know when fate is going to set an enticing man within eye contact. He's checking out your assets at the supermarket while reaching ...
Frank White2 years ago
How to Get Close to Rich People
Think about it. Everybody you know wants more money. Endless series of books have been hacked out explaining foolproof systems on how to pile up more of the green stuff. Of course, after reading all t...
Samantha Bentley2 years ago
Rough Sex - The Right Way 
I’m one of those girls that has absolutely no problem admitting she likes being choked during sex. Actually, I don’t need to admit it, because there are close to 500 movies of me, on pretty much every...