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Bea Norton3 years ago
Flirting Tips for Women
Have you ever been on a "sex audition"? Do you believe flirting is the same thing as texting? The science of flirting is maintaining a balance between attracting through engagement and never seeming t...
Robert Chartham3 years ago
When to Have Sex
How many times is enough? What if she wants to when you don't want to, and vice versa. Is spontaneous sex better than scheduled sex? Do women prefer their sexual encounters be planned and men prefer t...
James A. Brussel3 years ago
What Does Facial Hair Say About Your Sex Life?
For over a century, anthropologists have worked to identify character traits and their specific relevance or relationship to facial hair. Throughout the world, it is a universal belief that a long, gr...
Filthy Staff3 years ago
Curious Case of Penis Envy
Just one year ago, an attractive redhead, Betty L., came to my clinic and said: “I don’t know what’s wrong with me, Doctor. I have a wonderful husband, twelve splendid children, a girlish figure, and ...
Robert Chartham3 years ago
Alpha Male Fantasy
Louis C. is a 34-year-old, 6’ man in generally good health, except for a touch of phlebitis. Although he is developing something of a paunch, Louis C. has powerful, sloping shoulders and looks as if h...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
Sensual Massage Oils
It’s all in the wrists. A little massage oil doesn’t hurt either. Whether it’s scented, flavored, or contains natural ingredients, turn down the lights, hit the play button, and rub each other down. M...
Jus L'amore4 years ago
What Is Consensual Adultery?
Out of all the experiences thus far in my life, marriage has been hands down, the most challenging. I know, I know, you would assume I would say parenting because I just love to complain about the cra...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
Can Anal Sex Be Pleasurable?
Ladies, we have a confession to make; we know how much anal sex you’re having. It turns out that at least 1 in 3 straight women in the US has tried anal at some point in her life. The National Institu...
Robert Chartham4 years ago
Fur Fetish Fantasy
Marian K. is a 26-year-old, 5’5”; woman in good health. She has long, red hair wound tightly on top of her head, brown eyes, and a full but sulky mouth that is turned down at the corners. She is divor...
Jus L'amore4 years ago
How to Score on the First Date
I know what you’re thinking. “Why the hell is a woman writing an article about men scoring on the first date?” However, if you really think about it, who better than an experienced, educated, and (onc...
Jus L'amore4 years ago
Understanding Foot Fetishism
This little piggy went to the market, this little piggy stayed home, this little piggy you sucked on, and this little piggy made you cum. Ahhh, nothing like an innocent child’s rhyme to get us on topi...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
How to Use Butt Plugs
Butt plugs are the next big trend in adult toys. Although using a butt plug can sound intimidating, once you’ve learned how to use butt plugs correctly, many people find them to be stimulating enhance...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
Are You an Exhibitionist?
He pushed me against the window and I knew people were watching, but I didn’t care. In fact, I wanted them to see. I, like millions of people worldwide, am an exhibitionist. We get stimulated by the f...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
Understanding Sexual Fantasies
Harold M. is a 47-year-old, 5'9" man who is in generally good health although he is a bit anemic. Apart from being a pharmacist, he is married, has two children, and earns about $30,000 a year. He is ...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
Pussy Pillow Nap Time
Combining the Internet's two most popular things, the Pussy Pillow has a cute cat on one side and the best part of a woman on the other. Both furry, both entertaining, and both hallmarks of our great ...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
How to Give the Best Blow Job
Giving the best blow jobs requires practice. Yet, I have been shocked to find out that many of my female friends refuse to indulge in oral sex. Therefore, I'd like to take this opportunity to tell our...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
Most Trusted Condoms
“Safe sex is great sex, better wear a latex.” —Lil Wayne. Besides protecting you and your partner, condoms are a great way to have some fun into the bedroom. Act out the scene from 50 Shades of Grey u...
Filthy Staff4 years ago
How to Use a Vibrator
It takes practice to become a skilled masturbator. The bottom line is that whether a woman has had difficulty achieving an orgasm or not, knowing how to use a vibrator works wonders. It just does, and...