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Kink Journals21 hours ago
Let's Talk About Sex Baby...
… Let's talk about you and me. Sorry, couldn’t help myself. So the latest news is that here in the UK, the supermarket Sainsbury’s are launching a range of vibrators. They are starting with a range of...
S A Miller7 days ago
Sexual Frustration in a Hook-Up Culture
As the saying goes, "variety is the spice of life," whilst that may be absolutely accurate when I am cooking my famous spaghetti Bolognese that has sprinkles of USA flavours in the form of oregano spi...
Chris Dee13 days ago
Sexting 101
We all know someone who not only sexts regularly, but who talks about it like it’s the easiest, most effortless thing in the world. Not everyone’s a natural when it comes to red hot sexts that really ...
The Difference Between BDSM and Abuse
Let's talk about the biggest difference between BDSM and abuse. BDSM is often confused with abuse all the time, by people who do not truly understand what BDSM actually is. What is the biggest factor ...
Sex Toys, Masturbation, and Him
When it comes to sex alone, sex toys most often are the only answer. Most single women these days own some sort of sex toys. Then they meet someone and start a relationship, and their sex toys are hid...
Elayne Douglas a month ago
Fantasies and Your Relationship
Fantasies can be a really sexy way to spice things up in your relationship if things are going a little sour. It’s a way for you to know what your partner wants, maybe something they wouldn’t say befo...
Daisy Rowley2 months ago
A 7-Step Beginner's Guide to Visiting Swingers Club
Here’s some simple advice to make your trip more enjoyable and comfortable.
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Lena Bailey2 months ago
Salt Daddies and Fakes
In the world of sugar, there are several names or terms for fake daddies or wannabes. I'm here to clear up any confusion or questions. I will be using the term Splenda or salt a lot but some of this c...
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Lena Bailey2 months ago
My BDSM Horror Story Update
I want to start this post off by saying that I am not making any of this up to get attention. I'm doing this so that people will feel like they aren't alone. I want people to be aware that this happen...
sancia holden2 months ago
The Dos and Don'ts of Sex with Your Ex
If your reading this, you're probably doing so because you're looking for a place to register the current shame you're feeling if you've just fucked your ex, or at least thought about it. It's a situa...
Ellowen Ophelia2 months ago
5 Things to Know Before Trying Anal *Must Read*
Trying new things in this world can seem pretty intimidating when it comes down to all the people that might judge you. With sex, it's pretty different though, because unless you're into exhibition, t...
Joseline Burns2 months ago
Sex & Pregnancy
Sex during pregnancy can be a freeing experience for the couple involved. It may be the first time in years that you have not been concerned about either getting pregnant or not becoming pregnant! Sex...
Patty McDaniels2 months ago
Water Based Lube vs Oil vs Silicone Personal Lubricants for Sex
Lubricants have become rather popular amongst adults who wish to have some excitement in their sexual activities. Although there are several sex toys available in the market, lubricants have gained im...
Bethany Ashlyn3 months ago
What Women Want You to Know About Sex
There is a topic many people are uncomfortable talking about with their partners. While almost all of us have had sex, we get choked up when asked to start a conversation about what happens underneath...
Bethany Ashlyn4 months ago
Let's Have a Conversation About Sex
I've been somewhat of a hypocrite in a few of my articles about sex. To go into more detail, I've spoken about how communication is critical in the bedroom without practicing what I preach. While I do...
Mardoll Gatsby4 months ago
Tipping a Sex Worker Is Huge and This Is Why You Should Do It
When I first came on-board in the sex industry, I had no clue that I wasn't going to be paid hourly. At the time, I was hurting for money when I first got in and heard through the grapevine that you c...
Alice's Secrets4 months ago
A Single Girl's Guide to Sex Toys
Are you finding yourself newly single? Or perhaps you have been single for a while and you’re wondering what the buzz is about (mind the pun). If you’re a newbie to sex toys, it can all seem a little ...
Lizzie Boudoir4 months ago
11 Mutual Masturbation Sex Positions You Will Both Love
Mutual masturbation is the safest sex you can have, but it doesn’t have to be used for that reason alone. For one, there are a plethora of health benefits from masturbation. Another reason is that it ...