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Dating App Dangers

Brooke Rose
in Culture

I'm writing this article so dating app users can beware of this scam from now on. A very close friend of mine, we will call him Mike, is on a few dating apps to get his name out there and meet women. ...

Save Your Money With These Creative 50 Cheap Date Ideas

Sheera Lee
in Entertainment

Whether it’s your anniversary, sweetheart’s birthday, or just a plain old Tuesday – these 50 cheap date ideas will keep your romance alive (but on a budget). Work on a fun DIY project together. Purcha...

Why Men Shouldn't Be Afraid of Sex Toys

Dr. Harmon Love
in Culture

Sex is great, and sex toys can make it even better, but many men seem to be intimidated by sex toys while their partners want them to know why men shouldn’t be afraid of toys. There are a number of re...

Ultimate Guide to Shower Sex

Yadim Shmaltz
in Entertainment

Shower sex is a perfect way for a couple to spice things up with a change of scenery without ever leaving the house. However, you may find that when it comes time to do the deed, the reality may be qu...

Shere Hite On the Importance of Masturbation

Alicia Springer
in Science

"Masturbation has helped me to know how to have an orgasm, and to recognize the stages of arousal I go through." My mother recently gave me a book she said changed her life in the late 1970s. Masturba...

What Makes a Man Want To Commit?

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

What makes a man want to commit? This is a common but misguided question that can begin stirring in a woman's mind as early as before the first date, and usually indicates you're approaching dating from the wrong direction. I have seen firsthand how easy it is to have your self-esteem squished to the level that you approach every date thinking that this could be The One. No matter what anyone says about singleness being a time of unbridled adventure and carefree fun (which it can be) it can also...

Welcome to the Friend Zone

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

Many men who are physically attracted to a woman end up exactly where they don’t want to be in said woman’s life. Welcome to the friend zone. For the most part, this is a matter of poor communication; Think about it- it’s not that you have a sticker on your forehead that reads ‘FRIEND’ … though it often feels that way. The problems usually stem from the very first interaction with a woman you really like. You like this girl so much but believe that she’s out of your league, so you don’t pursue h...

Call For A Good Time

Beca Sayers
in Entertainment

As a young adult, I can honestly say that being financially stable is quite a dream for myself. And it stays as that, a dream. Now don't cut me down just yet. I work a full time job and pick up overti...

How To Tell Him You Want To Commit

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

You probably worry that if you mention commitment you’re going to scare him off. That he’ll think you’re desperate or needy. One of my greatest grievances with modern dating is that women have been primed to feel ashamed of wanting commitment (and equally ashamed if they want to keep things casual!) You’re worried that he'll judge you so you hold back on what you want, because men like the chase... right? The problem with this mindset is that by hiding your needs you’re not doing a great job of ...

What To Do If She Cancels Last Minute

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

You’ve got a date this evening with a girl you’ve wanted to go out with for ages. You’re thinking about what to talk about and how to go in for the kiss. Then-your phone flashes: ‘Heyy I’m sorry but I’m feeling really tired tonight, do you mind if we rain check?’ Last minute cancellations are terribly frustrating; Not only are your evening plans ruined, but you worry that if she cancels this date, the chances of her making it out for another date are slim. The key here to avoid dejection is to a...

How To Get More Guys To Approach You

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

I know the movies told you that ‘One day your Prince will come!’ So when you’re sitting alone at a bar, no one is coming up to speak to you and you're getting no matches on Tinder, this can all feel mortally disappointing. I blame Disney movies for filling our minds with unrealistic expectations about how our man will find us. We expect men to all be swashbuckling heroes, who decide at first sight we’re the one for them and carry us off into the sunset. This is quite a lot to ask of your average...

Perfect Text To Send Your Ex

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

Girl … if you’re asking this question we need to get you back on the right track. I understand how hard break ups can be, particularly that painful first six to eight weeks when your life has been turned upside down and you’re dealing with the grief over someone who has disappeared from your life. It can be natural to try and fill the space he left by stalking him via social media hatching plans to get him back. It's natural, but definitely not the wisest plan of action! If you’re reading this n...

Importance of Sexual Communication

Lenny Legman
in Culture

You may not agree with me, but I think that for some time now there has been much too much emphasis placed on the sexual needs of women and not nearly enough on the sexual problems of men. Right now, ...

How Do You Know If She Likes You?

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

This is another one of those ‘if you’re asking the question you’re already losing’ questions. I don’t want you to spend another day stuck in your head, thinking about whether she likes you rather than asking her out in real life. I know it can be frustrating to feel like you’re stuck admiring that cute girl in your class or who you see every week and never quite know the right steps to take. However, I can tell you that instead of questioning, ‘does she like me?’ ‘would she go on a date with me?...

What to Say if You Don’t Want Commitment

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

All men want to play the field and all women want marriage and babies, right? Wrong. Assumptions are one of the ‘fun destroyers’ of dating and relationships. So if you’re a man (or a woman) and you’ve decided commitment isn’t for you–at least right now–don’t assume this is going to be a major bombshell for whoever you’re dating. It actually can come across pretty cool and self-aware to be able to acknowledge what you’re able to offer another person and what you aren't, and there’s nothing inhere...

What Do You Call Your Live-In Lover?  

Danielle Banner
in Humor

Lover? Boyfriend? Par amour? Fiancé? Baby? Dependent? Consort? Sweetheart? Honey? Roommate? If he’s not your husband and you’re living together, he’s your…? You’re his…? It’s about time there was a wo...