Sexual Likes and Dislikes

Whilst me and my boyfriend have been writing for this site, I gave him a few ideas on what may want to write about, although I have taken one idea and turned it into my own.

So here goes...

I'll be writing about my sexual likes and dislikes. However, only being 20 years old I may not have as much experience as some of you reading this piece.

Here are some of my likes that I have required over the past four years of having sex.

1. For some unknown reason I have recently been loving being "bitten," well being given love bites across my back or having my boyfriend run his fingers down/around my back. This gives me some sort of shudder across my body and it also just generally feels amazing.

2. Moving down to the pussy, I like to be licked/fingered generously before any intercourse takes place. Sometimes I can climax with just the foreplay. However, I can choose whether I want to climax during foreplay or climax during intercourse. They both tire me out just as much as one another.

3. Fucking is another concept that I love. I usually like to have it from behind bent over the bed or being bent over something. I find that it can hit my G-spot and I find it hard to contain the screams, therefore, I can't always take this.

4. Going back to the more common ways, I sometimes prefer just kissing and feeling each others' bodies.

Although during the past 4 years I have tried a few things that I would rather forget but there are also a few things that I would like to try but haven't yet. Here are some of the few things that I found to not like during the sexual acts that I have encountered.

1. Anal: This is something that I only managed to try once and will not be trying once ever again. Some people learn to enjoy this, others automatically love it, however, I didn't I couldn't get my head around what other people found to love.

2. Certain sex positions: Some of these are because I am not as flexible as people think I should be or I just don't get as much feeling as I would like from the positions. Some of these positions involve the male on top between my legs, my hips aren't strong enough to be pulled apart, and laying down and having the male behind, sometimes I do get incredible feeling from this position but sometimes I don't feel anything and climax after.

3. Bondage/"rough" sex: However, I sometimes like to my wrists to be tied together and to be blindfolded but that is as far as it goes. I've only ever had real "rough" sex once and again I came out more battered and bruised than loving what I was feeling. Although I still can't understand how some women prefer to come out more battered and bruised after sex. I'd rather finish sex and just be tired rather than physically and mentally hurting.

However, me and my boyfriend have spoken about or learned what we both don't like or what we both like. So, we have been able to adjust our sexual acts and fantasies to fit what we both love.

Me and my boyfriend both don't have loads of experience about positions, acts, and other things that sex could involve so we are both learning as we go along. And for us it works, we can both climax together or one at a time. Sometimes only one of us climaxes and the other doesn't, our sex life isn't just about have pleasure at the same time, it's about watching and having the other person receive the pleasure that they love.