7 Reasons Feminist Porn Is Better Than Real Porn

Lizzie Boudoir
in Culture

To many people, the idea of “feminist porn” is an oxymoron. Porn is often viewed as degrading towards women and some feminists, like second wave feminist Andrea Dworkin, believe that all porn, regardl...

Shere Hite On the Importance of Masturbation

Alicia Springer
in Science

"Masturbation has helped me to know how to have an orgasm, and to recognize the stages of arousal I go through." My mother recently gave me a book she said changed her life in the late 1970s. Masturba...

What Makes a Man Want To Commit?

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

What makes a man want to commit? This is a common but misguided question that can begin stirring in a woman's mind as early as before the first date, and usually indicates you're approaching dating from the wrong direction. I have seen firsthand how easy it is to have your self-esteem squished to the level that you approach every date thinking that this could be The One. No matter what anyone says about singleness being a time of unbridled adventure and carefree fun (which it can be) it can also...

Why Foreplay is Slowly Becoming a Thing of the Past

Anne St. Marie
in Culture

Foreplay. The word quickly brings to mind a certain couple and situation . . . usually, a man taking a few minutes to ‘warm up’ his lady before the actual act of penetration, perhaps with slow and ind...

The Brass Bed

Mars Benway
in Fiction

“What the hell is this?” Jane ignored the horror in my voice. “It’s a bed. It’s brilliant isn’t it?” She was going to try and win me over with enthusiasm. “It’s interesting,” I conceded. “I’ve certain...

What Is a Sugar Baby?

Frank White
in Buyer’s Guide

High tuition, can be a thing of the past for college graduates. When your parents have had enough of you, there is a new daddy or mommy waiting for willing sugar baby wannabes. Apparently I have been ...

Welcome to the Friend Zone

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

Many men who are physically attracted to a woman end up exactly where they don’t want to be in said woman’s life. Welcome to the friend zone. For the most part, this is a matter of poor communication; Think about it- it’s not that you have a sticker on your forehead that reads ‘FRIEND’ … though it often feels that way. The problems usually stem from the very first interaction with a woman you really like. You like this girl so much but believe that she’s out of your league, so you don’t pursue h...

Wacky Sex Toy of the Week: 'Ovipositor Dildos'

Anne St. Marie
in Humor

This third edition of Wacky Sex Toy of the Week features some truly unique toys...yes, they’ve all been pretty unique so far, but these are uniquer. Uniqueful. Uniquest. Yes, perhaps even more so than...

Call For A Good Time

Beca Sayers
in Entertainment

As a young adult, I can honestly say that being financially stable is quite a dream for myself. And it stays as that, a dream. Now don't cut me down just yet. I work a full time job and pick up overti...

After the Beach

Mars Benway
in Fiction

I can never understand why lying on the beach all day is so exhausting. We’d arrived late in the morning, after a lazy breakfast, and had spent the best part of the day lying in the sun, snorkelling i...

How To Tell Him You Want To Commit

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

You probably worry that if you mention commitment you’re going to scare him off. That he’ll think you’re desperate or needy. One of my greatest grievances with modern dating is that women have been primed to feel ashamed of wanting commitment (and equally ashamed if they want to keep things casual!) You’re worried that he'll judge you so you hold back on what you want, because men like the chase... right? The problem with this mindset is that by hiding your needs you’re not doing a great job of ...

What To Do If She Cancels Last Minute

Hayley Quinn
in Culture

You’ve got a date this evening with a girl you’ve wanted to go out with for ages. You’re thinking about what to talk about and how to go in for the kiss. Then-your phone flashes: ‘Heyy I’m sorry but I’m feeling really tired tonight, do you mind if we rain check?’ Last minute cancellations are terribly frustrating; Not only are your evening plans ruined, but you worry that if she cancels this date, the chances of her making it out for another date are slim. The key here to avoid dejection is to a...

Sensory Speed Dating: Or That Time Someone Sniffed My Armpit And Maybe I Liked It

Natasha Sydor
in Science

Instant gratification. A term we have all come to demand through life’s daily trivialities. Fueled in part by technology’s content expansion, we have become creatures of consumption; where, thanks to our personal pocket A.I.s, knowledge isn’t a privilege, it’s an expectation. However satisfying instant gratification may be, it should not be applied to every aspect of our lives – especially our dating lives. My advice to you: get off of Tinder, Grindr, and overpriced dating sites, and tune into G...

Best Vintage Sex Magazine Logos

Justin Maury
in Beauty

Before the sexual revolution enabled pornography to go mainstream (do Penthouse and Playboy sound familiar to you?) adult magazines, or ‘girlie mags’, were already in successful circulation. Now, all ...

Weirdest Sex Toys on Amazon

Lizzie Boudoir
in Buyer’s Guide

Amazon's commitment to sexual wellness has never been bigger. Soon you can have a weird dildo delivered by a drone the same day its ordered. Order it in the morning and be playing with it that night. ...

Interview with Casie Chegwidden, Star of 'Till Human Voices Wake Us'

Natasha Sydor
in Beauty

From a small town girl in New Jersey to starring alongside Lindsay Lohan, Casie Chegwidden proves that talent and dedication can get you far. This beautiful model first made national headlines when sh...