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My First Time Trying Anal

Do's and Don'ts!

By G MPublished 6 years ago 4 min read
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Okay so here I go... my first time trying anal was two years ago with my boyfriend of four years. It was something he wanted to try especially during that time of the month, but I was always hesitant to (DUHH!). One time we finally agreed to try and, well, it wasn't as bad as I expected it to be. I'll tell you a bit about how my experience went and then go over some do's and don'ts.

So my first time started off with the usual foreplay. I gave him head and he ate me out and fingered me at the same time. Once I was aroused he put his thumb inside my other end and continued eating me out. It was a bit uncomfortable at first but if he knows what he's doing with his tongue, I promise you'll be fine. Things started to get really hot and he was going a little faster and, to my surprise, it actually felt really good. One of my fantasies has always been to be fucked in both at the same time but I refuse to have a threesome so this was as close as I got (LOL). So we ended up having vaginal sex first which was great and halfway through we switched to doggy style. So while he was pounding me he also had his thumb inside going the same tempo. This felt AMAZING and, of course, he was loving it because he knew what was coming next. He layed me down still pounding me from behind for a few minutes and then slowly stuck his dick in. It was still wet so that helped a lot! Again it was a little uncomfortable but it felt pretty good because I was still aroused. He started going faster and faster until he was pounding me like he normally does. We then switched positions (MISSIONARY) but he kept pounding me. This is by far my favorite position for anal because he was rubbing my clit while pounding me. He ended up finishing inside me which is something he's always wanted to do (but I never let him because I don't want babies or birth control, lol). Ladies just a heads up, it doesn't really feel any different for us when he cums inside you (but of course it's a turn on watching them do it).

That was my experience with anal, so now let me tell you some do's and don'ts based off that.

1. FIRST TIME ANAL IS NOT FOR STRANGERS LADIES! I say this because you want to make sure that 1) you're comfortable and 2) that they care about you enough to make sure you're comfortable throughout.

2. DRY ANAL = MURDER. Please do not try this without lube, your own wetness, or even a little spit with your partner's help (depending on comfortability). You don't have vaginal sex without being wet and the time it has happened I'm sure was very uncomfortable, so don't do this with anal sex either. The more lubed up you are the better the experience will be as far as the pain goes. If that means you gotta use a condom then by all means.

3. WORK UP TO IT. Foreplay is your best friend here! It will take the edge off and make you actually enjoy your experience throughout. Play with yourself, ladies, or play with your ladies gentlemen (before and throughout!).

4. DON'T MAKE PLANS AFTER IF HE FINISHES INSIDE YOU LADIES. The after effect is NOT pretty. Make sure you go straight to the restroom and stay there for a few minutes to make sure it all gets out. Also, for at least a day or two, if you've gotta go #2, it will go straight through you if you don't go right away. Be mindful of the fact that those muscles have been loosened a bit so it will be hard to hold it.

5. HYGIENE! Please make sure you are being as clean as possible! If you are going to have vaginal sex first, great! BUT do not have vaginal sex after anal unless you are positive that your partner has cleaned his junk thoroughly! Do your best to avoid that unwanted UTI or other bacterial infections. Make sure you and your partner have washed your hands (those thumbs), your face (for the guys, wash your face and beard), and whatever else you used down there.

6. DON'T FEEL PRESSURED. If you are not ready then you're just not ready and that is okay! Only do this if you are comfortable enough!

So, those are my suggestions for anal sex. You don't have to follow them, of course, but I feel that these made my experience more pleasant. Good luck with your adventure down below (or further below than usual)! If you have any more personal questions I may not have mentioned, feel free to email me at [email protected]!

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Just a young woman trying to put her thoughts out into the universe💫 Your support is greatly appreciated!❤️

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