My Favourite Bedroom Stuff

My girlfriend always says that we should discuss more about our likes and dislikes in the bedroom. Apparently, the answer “everything” isn’t good enough. I hadn’t really thought about it until she asked but as she suggested I write this, then here goes.

1. I like her pussy shaved and totally smooth, she’s just done this for the second time for me just before I wrote this. Although, she has said she doesn’t like doing this because of the itch as hairs regrow. I like licking with no hair although quite happy either way. Sex is better shaved although again I am happy either way.

2. I like to take photographs of her whenever possible, although she’s not always keen. So, I tend to do quietly and quite stealthily, I actually prefer more natural shots rather then carefully posed ones. She sees all the photographs in the end so there’s no secrets. Also, she has taken pictures of herself for me in the past. She deletes any she doesn’t like so remains in control of what I see. I never share photos or show anyone, so she knows they are all totally private. I like to take or receive all sorts of shots of her, whether dressed, naked, or in between. When having a bad day at work I like to look some of the shots I have taken or that she has sent me in the past. The pictures remind me of the person I am going home to.

3. Our sex positions tend to vary depending on our mood, energy, and physical limitations. I have a bad back and she has bad knees so the amount of adventure depends on pain levels. We have been experimenting a lot to see what works as we have our own favourite positions, though they don’t always work for the other person. We have found the ones that work for us both so try and finish with those, even if try a few different in between.

4. Foreplay is important for us, whatever the method it usually lasts longer then the sex act itself. Hands and mouths get used a lot, again we have our favourites and try and use them. For example, I will give her oral sex until she’s either satisfied or bored. I meanwhile rarely get bored when between her legs, always loving the view and the intimacy.

5. A little light bondage can be fun too, although only involving dressing gown cords with us. One of us ties the other's hands together and sometimes blindfolds the tied-up person. The person not tied up explores the other's body while they can’t resist or see what’s happening next.

She also like love bites on her back and chest, which is new for me but am quite happy to have a nibble. She is quite careful to check that a decent mark is left and that there’s no teeth marks. The difficulty depends on where I am biting, the looser the flesh the better. So, chest and sides work best, while along the spine is harder.

6. We haven’t tried any role play, which is fine by me as it doesn’t really appeal. I also don’t do talking dirty naturally, though can have random outbursts if the time and mood is right. These things are new to me so they don’t come naturally to me. I try and tell my girlfriend I am shy but I don’t think she believes me.

7. I am quite happy to have a foreplay-only session or sex session where only she climaxes. This may seem unusual but I get pleasure from seeing her get pleasure. I do like the occasional one as well of course. Over the course of the day we usually orgasm separately if haven’t together during sex.

This isn’t an exhaustive list and I didn’t know what it would include till I wrote it. My girlfriend posts in this site as well and may write a similar piece. Hopefully she will have the same likes and dislikes or at least plenty of similarities. We will learn from each other as we go along and love to experiment to see what works.