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Let's Talk About Sex

From the famous hit song by Salt 'N' Pepa, "Let's Talk About Sex."

By Beca SayersPublished 7 years ago 4 min read
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My hands are tied literally..

For those of you younger generations out there, you might want to cover those eyes because this isn't censored. This is just a causal conversation about sex and those hormones that arose us. So grab a glass of that chardonnay or the bottle, and continue on...

Sometimes I feel like I live a double life. I separate the conservative and classy girl for work and my inner wild child at night. At work I keep everything professional and keep my life details to the bare minimal. Who knows who might be listening by the water cooler or the cubicle over! But once I leave those doors, the night is mine. I can't tell you how freeing it is to strip out of that pencil skirt with a blouse into nice ass hugging jeans with a low cut shirt. I feel like I go from the 20's era into the 90's. I go home to just glam myself up for a night on the town. I drive to the nearest place that serves alcohol with my squad and we dance to the filthiest music there. After swaying my hips to several baby-makin tunes, I spot some potentials.

I don't always go looking for guys when I go out. But if I spot someone that peaks my interest or makes my ovaries want to burst then I jump. I love that sexual tension that creates when two people meet. Our eyes wonder from the head to the toes. Men's eyes drop from our face to our breasts or our behind. Women's eyes drop from the face, torso, crotch and even sometimes the behind as well. When our hormones are raging, we can't help it! Sometimes being single for so long makes us crave that feeling we get when our bodies are ravaged or discovered. I don't know anyone who hates a great orgasm! I sure as hell don't.

When I do find that person that makes me want to ride him like a bull, I try to wait it out as long as possible. There's no harm in just making out. We may not be teenagers but even adults need those PG-13 nights. The sensation of his hands wandering just heats up the body. Hormones are spiked as the crotch is just pooling with wetness. Kissing the neck or even biting it just makes people moan. I love the sound of myself or my partner moaning in pleasure. I want my partner to enjoy it as much as myself. (We can't be selfish now, that is only for the vibrator that we have at home in our sock drawer).

But waiting until you see him outside of the bar is more for potential boyfriends. If your into that one night stand then take him somewhere. (Even if that's the bathroom at the place). The waiting game is the bittersweet time. You become so anxious while waiting to arrive at the destination but nervous for what awaits. Once you get into that room, clothes are ripped onto the floor. Your too busy sucking face to worry about neatly placing clothes in one area. (Tomorrow morning your going commando because where the hell are your panties!)

Once the clothes are off and someones on top, pull out the condom. He's hard as a rock and your vagina needs a good workout. I won't go into detail about how the sex goes because let's face it, it lasted maybe five minutes. But those were incredibly long sensual minutes of pleasure. Rather you stay the night or leave right after, a good fuck is much needed.

As a women, I am stopped when I go into detail about the intercourse that I had the night before. But why? Is it wrong to know that someone out there is being fully satisfied by her man? Is it weird to know that some women like anal sex? I know sometimes you like to keep things private but I like to learn. I don't know all the answers for the bedroom and hearing advice couldn't hurt. Especially when you need to spice things up.

I've been in long term relationships and in the dating game. I know that sometimes when we get stressed, we need some help to keep our spark alive. I use to read on how to make my guy and I fully satisfied. When you have the same routine sex throughout the week, it feels like a chore. Let me tell you that there is no harm in trying out new things.

Start with doing role play and slowly progress. If the idea freaks you out then don't force yourself. We see so much fake porn and fake orgasms that it's hard to know what works and doesn't. If handcuffs turn you on then hell yeah to those pink furry hand restraints. If you want to try anal then go ahead. Our sex desires and feelings are as important as our dreams. I want my partner to not only love me but satisfy my sexual hunger. If that's not your cup of tea then get a new pot.

So whether your single, in a relationship, or married, let's talk about sex. Let's not keep living that double life and push this topic as a norm in our world.

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Beca Sayers

A writer just trying to share these crazy life experiences. You will never be bored with my range of topics.

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