Leo Sex Astrology

Constellations fill the night sky, and many believe that these stars impact our personalities and the courses that our lives take. While the scientific validity of astrology is still tenuous, believers closely follow what their signs have to say about their futures. Each astrological sign falls under one of the four elements essential to life: fire, earth, air, and water. Leos, born between July 23 and August 22, are fire signs, and are incredibly passionate. A Leo's sex astrology is largely determined by their extroverted and extremely confident nature.

The Man

He is very attractive to women—and knows it. When he walks into a room, women are immediately aware of him while men look at him with admiration. Although he can be creative, it is usually not in a deep or meaningful way. He is a showman—a producer who always seeks the flashy, superficial effect. He is often careless, but also very good at covering up. Sometimes he will disguise hasty and impulsive work with the frills and decorative touches at which he excels. If he can't do that, then he will excuse himself by saying that he has no patience with details, or that such chores belong to lesser people. Somehow he'll manage to get over the idea that you have failed him. He admires beautiful women but does not like them to talk loudly or dress garishly. As his consort, a woman must always behave properly. After all, he is the one who must get the attention! Leo likes to laugh. He is definitely an extrovert—expansive, generous, and outgoing. He is not a big-mouth or a phony, but he can be a bully. He loves luxury, and the best of everything is none too good for him. You can never go wrong by flattering him, as nothing you say is likely to surpass his high opinion of himself. But this is his Achilles heel, for a silver tongue can influence his decisions. He is easily wheedled into a loan, a raise, a favor, or even a marriage. If you have a lover or husband born under this sign, beware of making him jealous.

His Sexual Technique

He needs sexual satisfaction as much as he needs food and water. Each time he takes a woman to bed he expects it to be a glorious, unforgettable experience—but that sometimes defeats his own purpose. His partner gets the idea that he's out to win the sexual Olympics and begins to doubt if she can make the team. It doesn't help matters that he spends so little time on foreplay. Leo is interested in nothing but his own sexual needs. Afterwards, he expects a woman to congratulate him on his technique. For him, this is the pleasant "afterglow" of any sexual encounter. In bed he is turned on by a woman in a helpless position. A favorite is to have the girl kneeling beside the bed, supporting her upper body on it, while he kneels behind her and enters her. Grasping her hips slowly he stands up. This way she uses only her vaginal muscles while he controls the other movements—including the turning and rolling of her hips. Oral sex is only acceptable if he is on the receiving end. For him, fellatio combines not only sexual pleasure but an attitude of adoration that preens his masculine vanity. Cunnilingus, however, is definitely not in his line. Neither are the kinkier variations. He prefers the standard forms of sexual intercourse. The missionary position is fine, and for variation he will simply turn around on the bed and plant his feet on the headboard to propel himself with more vigor. He wants a woman to show how much she's enjoying it. When she is moaning out of control or screaming with delight, she is telling him that he is still master of his mate.

His Sexual Hangups

His natural ability as a lover can flow into the wrong channels if a woman fails to play up to his enormous ego. He then turns to more offbeat kinds of self-glorification. A favorite method is to dress up his genitals. The girlfriend of a Leo once told me that he liked to wear French ticklers and soft plastic rings that had oddly-shaped extensions like spider legs. Knowing what prompted his wearing these adornments, I advised her to flatter him and play up to him more in the bedroom. When she did, his interest in the art of genital decoration disappeared. Like any Leo, he only wanted to be kingly and admired. If he has to go too long without the sexual admiration so necessary to him, Leo becomes preoccupied with the problem. He can't think of anything else. He will ignore friends, family, and business and will finally seek relief at the more sophisticated bordellos, where the girls know how to cater to his obsession.

The Woman

She believes she is too idealistic, and that is why she's destined for disappointment. The truth is that she tends to love the "wrong" person or turn off "Mr. Right" by her unwise and overly demanding lovemaking. Nothing is more important to her than that men admire and desire her. Her own feelings do not always become involved. In a sense she offers sex for sale, but her payment is only the satisfaction of knowing how dearly she is prized. If she gets too comfortable in an affair, she may get lazy. She has a great talent for creating her own unhappiness. To keep herself at her best, she needs change—but because of her basically indolent nature, change is difficult. The result is often a stalemate in which she simply stays put. She likes people but is self-centered. She is domineering but dignified, vain but kind—a creature of contradictions who sees other people's problems only in relation to herself. She will be faithful to those who love her, but if their affection falters, that is her license to prowl. She can often be found in the center of aménage à trois with two men. By playing off one against the other, she rules as Queen of the Roost. She is only happy when she is the center of attention.

Her Sexual Technique

Leo likes to carry on what she considers innocent flirtations—expressions of a free-floating libido. She will not pant after any man, for she is too self-content and self-satisfied to be sexually aggressive. Her aim is simply to make herself admired. In the sex act, she prefers to dominate but will usually settle for an equal partnership. In foreplay, she especially enjoys having her face, ears, and neck gently laved by her lover's tongue. She also likes him to run his tongue up from her legs to her inner thighs. Her favorite method of having sex is to allow the man to penetrate halfway and alternate thrusts with him in a cooperating maneuver. She likes to make love with the lights on so her partner can admire her body and comment on it. A lover's admiration is an essential part of sex for her. She always chooses her bras and panties carefully, making sure she will be at her most provocative when she undresses for him. Leo women often wear wispy cut-out bras making their nipples available for manipulation, or cut-out panties making their front and rear available. Her calm and positive approach to sex is reassuring to men who are uncertain of their potency. She is always sure that her lover will do his best—if only because he adores her so much!

Her Sexual Hangups

Because Leo resents having to live in a man's world, she often assumes his role in the sex act. She's the kind who will wear a dildo and force her lover to bend over before her so she can penetrate him anally. She may even insist that he kiss and lick her shoes, her gloved hands, or her leather-bound breasts. Leo enjoys the flicking of a tongue in her vagina and wants the tempo and pressure to increase until she reaches orgasm. While some lovers prefer to alternate tongue with finger manipulation, the woman born under this sign wants the tongue only.

I have heard of instances in which a Leo woman insisted that her lover wear rubber diapers so that she could assume the dominant role and discipline him.

Leo women are attracted to very young boys, for they are more inclined to offer the blind, unquestioning adoration that she desires. In return, she will teach them about sex, and virtually make them prisoners of love.

Leo's Erogenous Zone

The back. In the bath, try rubbing Leo with a coarse sponge until the skin turns rosy. Work gently down along the spine to the base, then on the way up linger a little in the small of the back. Leo will be purring—and probably invite you into the tub! With male Leo, try raking fingernails lightly over his back during lovemaking. You'll excite him to greater effort and a more masterful performance. Turn on a female Leo by running the fringes of a shawl (cashmere is best) from the shoulder to the small of her back. Follow this treatment with a soft-bristle brush, such as the type barbers use to apply talcum powder. Go over the same area, lingering a little longer on that sensitive small of the back. She'll be a passionate lioness. Useful hint: during preliminaries with a Leo woman, look for a sign of sexual arousal in a skin flush that begins at the stomach area and slowly spreads to her breasts, throat, and neck. The intensity of the flush will be in direct proportion to the amount of stimulation. When she's the right shade, she's yours!

The Approach to Leo

Leo appreciates the arts, theater, and literature, and he or she likes to be where the excitement is. So don't pass up the opening of an art gallery, a movie or play premiere, or a fashionable cocktail party. Never forget that Leos need to be in the spotlight and recognized as unique or superior. Give them every possible chance to shine. It doesn't have to cost a lot. Just visiting friends who will appreciate and praise your Leo does the trick. Flattery is a must, and lots of it. Leo has an insatiable appetite for applause. Don't show up at her door with a beat-up Volkswagen. She prefers flashy cars. In fact, she has a weakness for luxury and ostentatious display, as well as a deep down, unspoken conviction that she belongs in high society. When the Big Moment arrives, let it be in a regal bedroom. If your digs don't measure up, take the best room at the best hotel—the more posh the better! Leo needs the right setting to perform, so provide it. Don't be penny-wise and lady-foolish.

How to Break Off the Affair

If you've read carefully until now, you probably know how to turn off a Leo, but here's a refresher: attack their sexual prowess. Imply that it's all been routine. Forget their birthday, the anniversary of the day you met, or the first time you went to bed together. Don't tell them they're wonderful and desirable. Never dress properly. Lounge around in your oldest, dirtiest, and shabbiest attire—and don't change when you go out. If you attend a movie, make it the local third-run and choose the sleaziest sex film. Exclaim over the glamour and excitement of the lovemaking in the film, implying that Leo could learn a good deal. Always let him or her know that your career, your social life, and your sexual satisfaction comes first. Flirt. Leo will be gone, to play King or Queen in some other jungle.

Bedmates

Leo and Aries: Both have warm, passionate natures and see eye-to-eye on many things. They love people, parties, places, and possessions. An excellent match.

Leo and Taurus:Extravagant Leo finds Taurus closely guarding the buck and more interested in staying home to watch TV than running around to gather new admirers. A fifty-fifty chance.

Leo and Gemini:Clever Gemini gets along fine with bighearted, generous Leo. But Gemini has a wandering eye, and Leo does get jealous.

Leo and Cancer:Self-centered, vain Leo may not pay enough attention to sensitive Cancer, for whom affection is food and drink. Leo has to get away from the mirror for this to be a good match.

Leo and Leo: Because they are kind, giving, and gregarious, they have a varied and interesting social life. Sexually well-matched too. But one mustn't try to dominate the other.

Leo and Virgo:Trouble in the bedroom. Virgo is more interested in a secure future than a roll in the hay. And Virgos don't like being dominated.

Leo and Libra: Both are interested in the easygoing life, and they have the same outlook on spending money. Sexually, not a bad match, although Leo's approach is more physical.

Leo and Scorpio: These two make fireworks in the bedroom, but each one wants to be the dominant partner. Temperaments clash, and Leo looks for admirers elsewhere while Scorpio seethes and plots revenge.

Leo and Sagittarius:Both signs have a wonderful sense of adventure, the same outlook on money, and are perfect sexual mates. A great match.

Leo and Capricorn: Capricorn, one of the most practical signs, may worry about Leo's spending. Physically, they make it together, so shacking up may be a better bet than marriage.

Leo and Aquarius:Aquarius's many hobbies and interests leave Leo feeling neglected. Aquarius likes people who have a purpose while Leo just likes people. Sexually compatible.

Leo and Pisces:Outgoing Leo rubs shy and introverted Pisces the wrong way. Both need and want praise, and both are more prone to receive than to give. Slim chances.