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If there's one thing that I know, it's kink. Kinky sex is wild, hot, and at times, a bit terrifying. There's also a type of kinky sex for just about every person and every couple out there.
The funny thing about kink is that it's created a full economy of insane sex toys to cater to people who want to experiment with themselves or their partners. We've seen feather ticklers, mini vibrators, and more variations on a standard cock ring than most would possibly imagine as a result.
But, feather ticklers or vibrators can only go so far when you're trying to get really kinky, am I right? I know I'm right.
That's why, today, I'm going to share some of the kinkiest sex toys for couples who want to push the limits in the bedroom—and why you might want to give them a try.
(Note: For the sake of this article, I am going to stick to sex toys that are relatively safe. So, no CBT devices, no electro-stim toys, nothing involving fire, and no toys that could potentially choke you to death. As always, use toys responsibly and safely!)
Premium Suede Leather Flogger by MSsmart
We're going to start gentle with our list of the kinkiest sex toys for couples by kicking things off with a classic: a suede flogger. This flogger is soft and delivers a hefty "thud" during your flogging sessions. In other words, this will not sting you during your scene sessions.
If you're not sure how kinky you want to go, or if you're just beginning to test the waters of masochism, this super-soft flogger is an affordable way to discover exactly how much you like to be hit.
Impressions Heart Crop by Sportsheets
Without a doubt, one of the kinkiest sex toys for couples in the mainstream world of BDSM would have to be a riding crop. Unlike floggers, which provide a softer thud, riding crops provide a sharp sting. They're painful, but when used just right, provide a pain that quickly turns into pleasure.
This adorable riding crop from Sportsheets has an added perk—when you slap it against your partner, it leaves a heart-shaped mark on them. How cute is that?
Leather Puppy Bondage Mask by Olly and Ally
If you're looking for some of the kinkiest sex toys for couples, chance are that you're interested in some seriously kinky fetishes. This combines facial bondage, puppy roleplay, and blindfolding kinks into one seriously wild toy.
This mask is a hood that keeps you from being able to see around you and is made of genuine leather. For extreme submission play, you'll be hard pressed to find a hood that is more humiliating (and useful) than this one.
Fox Tail Butt Plug by FourPlusOne
Love the idea of getting anal with a side of roleplay? Furry tail butt plugs were one of the kinkiest toys for couples when they first came out, and though they are now way more mainstream, they still are definitely way beyond what vanilla couples would try.
This stainless steel butt plug allows you to get a good amount of G- or P-spot stimulation while also enjoying the kinky roleplay side of things, too. It's cute, sure, but it's still kinky as can be.
Silicone Ball Gag by Redlake
If you're not into the idea of full facial bondage but want to explore more intense bondage sessions, don't worry. There are still plenty of options among the kinkiest sex toys for couples who love bondage to choose from—including the ever-present ball gag.
Ball gags are great if you love the idea of silencing your partner during a hard flogging session, or if you just enjoy the aesthetic of a little bit of facial bondage. This silicone one is easy to clean, which means less worry about drool stains after your session is done.
Latex Catsuit by AvaCostume
Latex play is huge in the kink world, and there's a reason why so many of the fantasies involve a little latex from time to time. The feeling of latex, particularly when polished with the right water-based lube, will make every single touch feel more significant.
A latex catsuit also has the tendency of "sucking things in," which in turn makes it one of the most figure-flattering kinds of lingerie you can wear. Since it also works as a sensation play augmenter, we're going to call it one of the kinkiest sex toys for couples who want to experience a new type of touch.
Wartenberg Pinwheel by Grafco
Believe it or not, the Wartenberg Pinwheel was once used to help test nerve reactions in patients due to the way people naturally react to the pricking feeling of pins down their spine. Nowadays, the Wartenberg Pinwheel is considered to be one of the kinkiest sex toys for couples that love sensation play.
Though it look scary, don't be fooled—it doesn't always hurt. When run lightly down your body, it feels like a mix between a chill and a bug crawling on you. When it's heavily pressed down, yes, it will hurt and possibly puncture skin.
The cool thing about Wartenberg Pinwheels, though, is that they also make your muscles involuntarily tense up when you have it lightly run across your skin. So, if you use one lightly near your partner's thighs when they're close to orgasm, you can bet they'll have a huge reaction.
The 3-Piece Drilldo Starter Set by Drilldo
A lot of jokes can be said about involving power tools in the bedroom, but this is no joke—it really is one of the kinkiest sex toys for couples currently being sold on Amazon. This "drilldo" uses a powerdrill motor and a locking dildo to create one of the most powerful fucking machines currently being sold.
Once you have the drill set, you can quickly switch things up with larger insertions. So, if you love seeing your partner take a huge member in them at high speeds, this is a painfully great choice. Sure, it may be one of the weirdest sex toys on the net, but we'd be lying if we said it didn't get the job done.
The Pinch Adjustable Nipple Clamps by 50 Shades of Grey
Admittedly, the 50 Shades of Grey book series was pretty terrible. In fact, it'd probably be better called 50 Shades of Bullshit if you're looking for an accurate representation of a BDSM-filled sex life.
However, the sex toy line has quite a few gems worth checking out—many of which could easily be the kinkiest sex toys for couples currently wandering around that corner of Spencer's Gifts. These adjustable nipple clamps are pretty kinky and can quickly kick up the pain a bit.
What makes these great is that you get to adjust the pressure the clamps put on you, which means that you never have to worry about it being "too much" to handle.
Heelless Ballet Boots by Wonderheel
Last on my recommended list of the kinkiest sex toys for couples looking to experiment are ballet boots—such as the ones above from Wonderhell. At first glance, they don't look like sex toys, but believe me, they are.
More specifically, they're a bondage device that makes it nearly impossible to walk without serious toe-stubbing pain. (That being said, you can train yourself to walk in them, if you're so inclined.)
These shoes are great for catering to foot fetishes or shoe fetish scenes. If you love sexy shoes and adore the idea of seeing your partner on their knees, you'll enjoy using these in your next bondage session.