First Time Sex

After writing about so many sex-base things in the site, it makes sense to write about having sex for the first time. It was about 30 years ago but I do remember it well. I didn’t know what I was expecting, I didn’t have internet porn to compare to or to use as inspiration. I had access to a limited number of videos, but these rarely had sex scenes in them. There were also pornographic magazines. The shop sold ones that tended to have little sex in them, just nudity. So, although I hadn’t had sex or been close to a naked woman, I had an idea of the geography.

The first person I had sex was with my first serious girlfriend and then eventually my wife. We had been introduced by a mutual friend where we all worked. We worked at a train station, which my girlfriend commuted 45 miles to each day. She worked on the platform, selling sweets. I worked repairing the platform electronics, so I had seen her a few times. We got talking after the introduction and became friendly. We went for food and drinks a few times before I had the nerve to invite her home with me. I lived with my parents and brother but they were away at the time.

We took the bus to my house and went to my bedroom. It was a small room with a small bed so it was quite cramped straight away. After chatting and me getting more nervous, we started on a game of strip poker. We both lost a few times but I ended up naked first, and she was down to underwear. We carried on a few times until she lost her bra. She was quite large-chested so it was quite a thrill as they were the first naked breasts I had seen. We carried on again until this time she stood to remove her knickers and was naked in front of me. She lay down next to me and, seeing how excited I was, got me to lie between her legs for my first sex session. Although she was only 18 months older than me, she was much more experienced than me. I was very excited but also very nervous about doing the right things. I played with her breasts and managed to enter her. I slipped out a few times as I perhaps tried too hard. Soon it was all over and I had had sex for the first time.

I think we slept soon after and went back to work the next morning. I don’t remember any comments from her on how it had gone or how soon after we repeated the night. We were together as a couple for around 20 years, so something must have been okay, though I have learned and experienced more in the last six months with my new girlfriend than in that 20 years and time since. I think with my wife, we just got stuck with the same sex acts and got complacent. My girlfriend is much younger than me and far more flexible and thinner than my ex. This allows us to try more positions that were impossible before. If my wife went on me, I would have been squashed. If we had tried sex from behind, I would have to get past her backside first. So, after 30 years of sex, it's now the best and I get to try things I haven’t before. I hope I have plenty of time to try and experience even more sex in new and exciting ways. There’s always plenty to try.