First Time Oral

Staring into the eye of your man’s BFF boy toy can be intimidating! What do I do? How do I even begin? He’s not even hard yet what do I do next? Rest assured you are not alone! I think everyone was scared the first time! To help you out before the big night, here are some tips you need to know to make it memorable for both of you! And in a good way!

1. Don’t Be Afraid to Initiate and Take the Lead!

Guys love it when their partner initiates oral sex! When they start to realize they’re about to get a blow job, his member will perk right up, and make starting a piece of cake. Start by slowly undoing his pants while you stare into his eyes. 100% he’ll put down whatever he’s doing and you’ll have his full attention! Kiss his stomach and slowly work your way down. Don’t let him rush you! Mr. Happy will be standing at full salute by the time you finally get his pants all the way off! But don’t go straight to town! The anticipation of the blow job will make it 10x better!

2. Let Your Fingers and Lips Wander First!

Once you have him in his birthday suit, let your lips and fingers linger. Kiss around his thighs, tickle his balls, give his shaft tiny little kisses or licks! I guarantee he will be squirming in his seat!

3. Let Him Watch You!

Not only does he like the way blow jobs feel, he also likes to watch his dick getting sucked! Every now and then, look up at him, make eye contact. Give him a little smile while you kiss and stroke his penis and ask him if it feels good. These little extras are going to make it so much more fun for him and his Big O that much better!

4. BJs Aren’t Just for Sucking!

There are so many things you can do to a penis that all feel incredible, so don’t limit yourself to just sucking! Lick, kiss, stroke, lick just the head, play with his balls, do it all! And change it up throughout! He is going to moan with every new sensation! And don’t forget you have two hands to help you out! Mix up using your mouth then switch it up with a hand job. Once you’ve been going for a while, ask him how he wants to cum. Then you can concentrate on that technique for the orgasm!

5. Take Breaks If You Need to!

Let’s be honest, our mouths can get tired and sore from sucking for too long. It’s okay to stop using your mouth and try one of the other techniques I mentioned above! Kissing, licking, using your hands and giving a hand job while you kiss the tip, go back to kissing his thighs or stomach for a minute, or change the position you’re sitting or kneeling in. Maybe break it up by letting him have a turn on you! *wink* He won’t even notice you’re switching things up because it all feels amazing!

Blow jobs don’t need to be a scary thing you avoid! They are fun and can be a great method of foreplay! Or if you’re wanting to spice things up, it’s an easy thing to do in public, in the car, or surprise him while he’s playing video games or watching TV! I have faith in you that you will give an amazing blow job that not only he’ll want more of, but so will you!

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Until next time!

Muah! XOXO

-J