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Eat It Like You Mean It

Don't be intimidated by your own nastiness.

By Micky ThinksPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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Make it sexy. Make it exhilarating. Make it nasty.

If you’re familiar with my recent writing on how to perform the best blowjob, you understand the emphasis I place on nastiness. It doesn’t mean you have to engage in anything you’re uncomfortable with; remain true to your sexual interests. However, showing your partner the lengths you’re willing to go to please them can be extremely arousing. It’s intimate and can intensify the experience for the both of you. In regards to eating pussy, it can be a downright game changer.

Here are six tips to help you slurp the box like you mean it!

1. Start slow.

Unless your partner directly instructs you to, don’t rush straight to the clitoris. Take your time. Give yourselves an opportunity to bask in the moment. Caress and gently lick their thighs, stream kisses from their nipples on down. Create an excruciating sense of anticipation. Enjoy watching them squirm in ecstasy as they await that special moment. You’ll thank yourself later (and they’ll thank you too).

2. Go deep.

Few things in life surpass the pleasure of a good tongue fuck. Use your tongue resourcefully. Don’t just use the tip; ease it all into the pussy. Mimic the rhythm you would use with a penis or sex toy. You may catch a kink in your neck so be sure to grab some pillows before you begin. Twist your tongue from side to side as you delve it deeper inside. Pay attention to the verbal responses or body language of your partner while doing so. Perhaps they want you to dig deeper or ease out and use the tip only. It’s their preference. It would behoove you to be mindful of this in order to create an amazing experience.

3. Be gentle with the clit.

In case you’re unaware, the clitoris is just as sensitive as the tip of a penis. There’s tons of nerve endings there. Don’t nibble or bite on the clit unless your partner tells you to do so (and even then, be careful!). Use a combination of techniques: the tip of your tongue for flicking and the surface of your tongue for licking. You can even suck on it if you wish. Diversify your toolkit of techniques and determine what works best for them.

4. Use your fingers!

You know you can finger and tongue fuck, right? Like, simultaneously?(And for some, it’s fucking amazing). Be mindful of how swiftly you slide your fingers in and out of the pussy. The speed can be overwhelming if it’s something your partner isn’t used to. Try one finger for a tester, two fingers for a ride. If your arm gets tired midway through, encourage your partner to slide themselves back and forth on to your finger(s). Allow them to fuck you. Not everyone can multitask so if this is too intense for you, I understand. But for an incredible experience, just give it a try.

5. Be vocal.

The more comfortable you are, the more comfortable your partner will be. Not just in regards to being naked, but with being verbal as well. Don’t be intimidated by your own nastiness. Tell your partner how delicious their pussy tastes and how much you enjoy pleasing them. Don’t persistently ask the question, “Do you like it?” or “How does it feel?” That can become annoying after a while. Say whatever naturally comes to you and be in the moment. Moan if you need. Your partner will enjoy knowing you’re getting as much pleasure from the act as they are receiving.

6. Make eye contact.

To explain it simply, it’s intimate. There is something sensuous about gazing into the eyes of someone you care about as they lap up your pussy juice. It’s an image difficult to erase from the mind and that’s the exact effect you want. It makes you appear more confident and in turn, your partner will be aching for more.

Flex your tongue and get to work!

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About the Creator

Micky Thinks

I claim this space as my corner of the net to express my deepest feelings and most sentimental thoughts. Not all opinions shared will be popular, thus the pseudonym. But it is my hope that others (if only one) can connect to my strife.

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