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Best Lubes for Anal Sex

In the world of butt stuff, not all lubes are equal. These are the ones sexperts claim are the best lubes for anal sex.

Anal sex is one of the only bedroom antics that has mandatory prerequisites for anyone who wants to enjoy it. You need to prep yourself and your partner before you go in. You also, above all, need to have proper lubrication before you give this a go. 

Without preparing yourself and your partner for anal, you will end up with awkward (or gross) moments. After all, anal intercourse can be unsanitary if you don't stay clean back there — or if you have the wrong meals leading up to it. 

You can talk about anal sex with your partner all night, and eat a diet that hopefully keeps you from making a mess, but if you don't have lube, anal is a bad idea. Without lube, you may actually end up needing a hospital visit. Believe it or not, it is possible to cause permanent damage to your booty if you don't use lube.

That being said, coconut oil and other similar lube substitutes won't cut it. Here are sexperts' picks concerning the best lubes for anal sex, and why you'll love them. 

Pjur Backdoor by Pjur

If you're new to anal sex and literally just finished up searching the best positions for anal sex newbies, then there's only one lube you should really consider: Pjur Backdoor. 

This lubricant is designed to help relax your backdoor for easier entry, and is thick enough to avoid spillage. It's super slippery, and doesn't cause you to lose sensitivity back there. For newbies, this is a win-win situation that might just make you more open to butt stuff. 

Analyze Me by Pjur

This super-slick silicone-based lubricant has gained a slew of awards for being one of the best lubes for anal sex. The ingredient that really kicks it up a notch is jojoba oil, which helps relax the receiver. Since it's compatible with natural latex condoms and polyurethane condomes, you also won't have to worry about breakage either. 

Most people (obviously) love using this as a vaginal or anal lubricant. However, this lube also works wonders as a massage oil, since jojoba oil conditions your skin. 

Sensual Care Duo by Jimmyjane

If you're looking for a luxurious lube that regularly ranks among the best lubes for anal sex, regular sex, and penetration using sex toys, too. They're glycerin-free, alcohol-free, paraben-free, and are designed to be as slick and body safe as possible. 

Considering that Jimmyjane makes some of the best sex toys for couples, we're not surprised that their luxury lube line has been flying off store shelves the way it is recently. 

H2O Natural Intimate Lubricant by Sliquid

If you're looking for a great water-based lube that includes no skin irritants and lots of slippery goodness, look no further than Sliquid H2O Natural Intimate Lubricant. This is one of the best lubes for anal sex, vaginal sex, and even toy-based fun. 

This particular lube is all plant-based, and has a serious rep for being easy to clean up. If you're sick of sticky, tacky-feeling lubes, give Sliquid H2O a try. We're willing to bet you'll love it.

Sutil Lubricant by Sutil

Sutil has been getting a serious following thanks to its eco-friendly style, and Sutil Lubricant's no exception to that rule. This thick, but slick water-based formula is known for being long lasting and leaving skin feeling softer than a baby's bottom. 

Since it's made of botanical ingredients, Sutil has a slightly herbal taste to it — so it may not be your match if you want oral sex. However, because of its velvety feeling, it's one of the best lubes for anal sex we've seen in recent years. 

Astroglide by Astroglide

Astroglide is a classic choice, and for good reason. It's flavorless, keeps things slick, and also is remarkably affordable for all groups of people. It also doesn't have a sticky residue when it dries, which in turn makes it an easy-to-clean anal lube. 

Babelube Silicone by Babeland

You might recognize Babeland as the smash-hit sex store with all the fun goodies, but did you know that they also produce one of the best lubes for anal sex on the market? It's true — and it's silicone-based, hypoallergenic, slick, and flavorless. 

This silicone-based lube is known for being incredibly long-lasting, as well as a surprisingly good moisturizer. So, if you're looking for a new massage oil, or a great lube for sex of all sorts, this is a smart choice you should absolutely consider. 

Jo H2O by System

System Jo H20 Anal Lube | BetterSex
System JO H20 Anal Lube for those fun nights to make your anal sex more pleasurable.

If you love anal lubes that stay slick and are water-based, then you might want to grab a System Jo H2O bottle before your next roll in the hay. This personal lubricant was specially designed to enhance anal intercourse and help improve entry and increase sensation.

That being said, people with sensitive skin may want to check out other lubes. This is not glycerin-free, and can cause irritation with people who have allergies to glycerin.

Thick Anal Lubricant by Ultimate Encounter

Thick Anal Lubricant Ultimate Encounter | BetterSex
Ultimate Encounter Thick Anal Lubricant and other sex lubes at

This is a super-thick lubricant that does wonders for both anal sex and vaginal sex due to its viscosity. However, its real strong points are anal sex and near-anal massages.  

According to experts, it's one of the best lubes for anal sex due to its unique formula — which is designed with her pleasure in mind. 

Relax by Doc Johnson

Relax Anal Relaxer 2 0Z | BetterSex
Relax Anal Relaxer 2 0Z and other Sex Toys at Better Sex

Timid about your first time having anal sex? You can avoid the tension back there by using a lubricant that's made to help you keep things relaxed enough to be enjoyable back there, too. 

Relax, an anal lube by Doc Johnson, has a number of natural ingredients that help relax your backdoor so you can actually enjoy anal sex. If you check out the ratings, you'll understand why this is one of the best lubes for anal sex in its price point. 

Wet Original Formula by Wet

Wet Original Personal Lubricant | BetterSex
Wet Original Personal Lubricant is one of the best-selling water-based lubricants on the market.

Another well-known personal lubricant on this list is Wet. This classic formula might be one of the first you ever picked up at Spencer's Gifts as a teen, but it's also one of the best lubes for anal sex. 

It's slippery as sin, thick enough for fun anal exploration, and is also one of the best selling water-based lubricants on the market. It's a classic for a reason, and if you try it out, you'll totally get why. 

Uberlube by Uberlube

If you're in the market for a hyper-luxury lubricant, then you might as well splurge on Uberlube. This isn't just one of the best lubes for anal sex; it's one of the best lubes, period. It feels natural, works great for all kinds of sex, and is also super-healthy for your skin. 

This looks like a perfume bottle, but has no odor. It's just pure, perfect lube. Needless to say, this is a personal lubricant with class — and trust us, we never thought we'd be saying that sentence, either. 

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