Wendy Adams
Stories (10/0)
Ask Wendy: About Alternative Lifestyles
You know you have always wondered about it. You are at a party and you see a hot man or woman and wonder what it would be like to go at it with them. But then, of course, you are standing there with your spouse or significant other and the fantasy quickly dissipates because you are committed to each other and would never do anything to adversely affect all you have.
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy - Sexual Foreplay
Ask Wendy: Wendy, why do I have such a hard time having orgasms with my husband? My friends claim they can have multiple orgasms with their lovers and I can barely have one, if not at all. I am not that experienced, my husband is only the 3rd person I have had sex with. Help…. Desperate for Answers- from Minnesota
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About BDS&M
I am intrigued by BDS&M upon inventing my sex toy and going into the underground world of all things sexual and erotic. Having the perception that only hardcore, biker types were involved in this fascinating underworld that I have arrived in, I was presently surprised by the mundane types that participate in this lifestyle. From every walk of life, every shape and size, sexual orientation, and occupation, the BDS&M lifestyle community comes from. Some actors are hardcore, some enjoy a softer approach, and some people live it 24/7. For those not yet exposed to the mental aspect of this fetish, www.fetlife.com is an amazing resource to learn more about it.
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About Staying in Love and Lust
Have you ever had someone ask you and your loved one, “What is your secret for staying married so long?” I have heard it a lot and had to take a step back to figure that out, as we live day to day and this transcendental question hadn’t arisen. Having been married for almost three decades, I guess from outward appearances yes, we have a successful marriage. But we have certainly been through many ups and downs as any relationship does, however, somehow we have been able to tolerate our differences and remain intact. The one saying we have heard was we never fell out of love at the same time. Well that is fine and dandy but you can’t rely on those odds.
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: Sexuality and Pleasure Sensors
Sensory receptors are all around the human body and are in your eyes, ears, mouth, skin, and your nose (Issue, 2015). As one approaches sexuality as an erotic lover, the more senses you titillate the better. Lovers remember special visual and seductive moments. If you can massage your lover with scented oils, and massage their entire body and explore every inch of their skin that is a memorable experience.
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: Ordinary Objects
When I was young I did not look in the mirror and say, "Oh yes! When I am an adult I will invent a controversial sex toy"! Of course, not. I was doing what every other girl did. Chase boys, play house with girls, beat up those I felt attracted to, made out with my boyfriends, and played spin the bottle. Hummmmm, bottle?
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy - Masturbation
Have you ever wondered if there were differences in masturbation patterns between men and women? If you thought that men masturbate more frequently than women you guessed right. Did you also wonder if men are more open to the possibility of casual sex? If you thought YES then that is also a correct assumption.
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About TEDDY LOVE and Medicinal Benefits
The TEDDY LOVE BEAR was launched successfully as a novelty gift that provided sexual benefits to those that were fortunate to receive TEDDY. TEDDY LOVE was created by chance and the utility of TEDDY LOVE has been found to provide anecdotal benefits well beyond those of a sexual nature.
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: Is it Better to Give or Receive?
Is it better to give or receive oral sex? I personally love both but let’s see what a peer reviewed article says…. Did you ever wonder if men or women like to give or receive oral sex more than the other? In Wood, McKay and Milhausen’s study of 899 heterosexual college students there was a difference, at least where a committed relationship versus a casual hook-up is concerned.
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy
Fetishism had been described by Sigmund Freud as eroticism derived from body parts and/or inanimate objects (Katka, 2010). Apparently, there were references to Fetishes in the late 1800s by sexologists, but my inclination is to believe that sexual fetishes were explored when Neanderthals roamed the earth. I conjure up images of “Cavey” dragging “Ms. Cavey” by her wildly matted, long, hair; possibly using a club on her head, all the while wearing his fashionable, furry-wear. If that doesn’t sound kinky, I don’t know what will.
By Wendy Adams7 years ago in Filthy