Miss Aayden

When I am not reading or taking pictures I am writing. I spend my time with my dogs or in the realm of kink. Just a girl with a kinky side on a quest to educate. You can also find my posts on my blog www.calgarydomme.com

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BDSM Basics: How To Find a Kinky Partner in 9 Steps
12 days ago
Let me guess, you’re expecting a very short and easy list. Well this isn't it. I work within the confines of reality and society so this means there is some leg work to do before you head out on your ...
Male Chastity: The Starting out Guide
2 months ago
Male chastity is not new; the origins are a bit clouded in history. Still, the idea of orgasm control fascinates so many. When you start in chastity, it may seem daunting or it may be pure excitement....
Red Flags in BDSM
3 months ago
How many times have we read in media, fiction or non fiction, about abuse hiding in the guise of BDSM? It not only puts a negative light on a community of genuine people but it puts a stereotype on us...
The Fine Art of Opposing Sensations and Triggering the Brain
4 months ago
When you are thinking about sex, sensual, kink or the gambits in-between. Think of competing sensations and how you can use them to your advantage as a lover. You might surprise yourself or your partn...
Dom (Top) Archetypes
a year ago
In my time within the BDSM community, I have come across so many types of Doms. Yes, this is the male identifying version of a Dom. There are good ones and bad ones. You will find you can be one of th...
The 9 Common BDSM Sub Types
a year ago
When you think BDSM you think Dom/me type and subtypes, but how many are there really. The most common being sub and slave but there are some more common types that people relate to more then those to...