Lydia Catherine

Lover of sloths and cheesecake, active in the BDSM scene and living with mental illness. You'll probably find me nesting in a local coffee shop, since coffee keeps me alive. 

15 Unheard of Fetishes
17 days ago
Why hello again, my SubSays friends! I decided to do something a little different and teach about some kinks that aren’t extremely common, but may surprise you. Here are 15 unique kinks to pique your ...
Ask a Submissive, Vol. 4
17 days ago
Ask a Submissive Vol. 4 Alrighty, folks. Let’s do the most FREQUENTLY Googled questions about BDSM culture and relationships. Because why not, and because I really don’t feel like I’ve been able to co...
Ask a Submissive: Vol.3
2 years ago
Hey everyone, welcome to the 3rd installment of Ask a Submissive! As always if you have any more questions for me whatsoever, you can ask them on my twitter @SubSaysHello, or if you're too shy, you ca...
BDSM Erotica: Strung up and Whacked
2 years ago
Sitting in the corner of Sir’s room always gets my head going. He’s in the next room banging around, I can hear Him, but He told me to sit where I normally do in my corner in my waiting position—naked...
BDSM Erotica: Blind and Bruised
2 years ago
I can hear my breathing. I can feel the rise and fall of my chest. There's rope tied around my body, rising and falling in time with the expanding of my lungs, rubbing against my skin. But I can’t see...
Maintain Your Mental Health while Submitting to Your Dominant
2 years ago
Submitting to someone is an extremely wonderful process of giving over aspects of your life that you used to control to someone that you trust. In the BDSM lifestyle as a submissive, being “owned” by ...