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Ask Wendy: Sexuality and Pleasure Sensors

A recurring series about love, sex and fun with Teddy Love creator Wendy Adams.

By Wendy AdamsPublished 7 years ago 2 min read
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Sensory receptors are all around the human body and are in your eyes, ears, mouth, skin, and your nose (Issue, 2015). As one approaches sexuality as an erotic lover, the more senses you titillate the better. Lovers remember special visual and seductive moments. If you can massage your lover with scented oils, and massage their entire body and explore every inch of their skin that is a memorable experience.

If your lover smells the oil you used they probably will get either wet or hard due to sensory memory. It is similar to when your Mom used to make certain baked cakes or certain foods. When you smell those scents it brings to mind your happy childhood and Mom. So, if you use scented candles and scented oils with your lover, when they smell these scents they’ll think of your moments together with a happy smile, and possibly a woody or a wet, vertical smile.

Think about the hearing sense and how certain soft whispers approached from behind your lover send shivers all over the body. If you couple that move with really sexy, soft, Jazzy music you are really hitting the ears and the sensory receptors there. Again, when your lover hears the songs you played your sensual memory will come to their mind.

Sight is the type of sensory receptor that encompasses visuality that is affected by socio cultural memories (Issue, 2015). However, if you create your own memories, visually, your lover now has three sensory experiences. Turn off the lights, put on a fireplace flicker, and allow soft candles illuminate. Men typically like some sort of effort put into dressing up sexy for the occasion. Most men don’t care that a woman has cellulite and is a little thick. Men are visual creatures and love flowy, sensual lingerie, and give them the pleasure of seeing you and hitting that sensory receptor.

Taste is a great receptor to stimulate. If you have delicious champagne and maybe strawberries with whipped cream that is a sexy way to touch the tongue. Take the whipped cream and place it onto the nipples and have your lover lick the whipped cream sensually off of your body. As you lick your lover all over their body, you can place your tongue on their dick or love patch slowly at first, and then allow your taste buds to go wild and taste their juices.

So, if you want to leave an ever lasting impression on your lover, hit all of the necessary sensory receptors. You’ll go down (no pun intended) into history as your lover’s best lover. If you want to get married you may end up with a marriage proposal…

Love, Sex and Fun!

Wendy Adams

https://teddyloveadulttoys.com/

References

Issue, C. (2015). Visual frictions. Journal of Aesthetics and Culture, 7doi:http://dx.doi.org/10.3402/jac.v7.30655

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