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Anal Sex - 101 #NSFW

The Best Guide in the World to Anal Sex #Hoemoir

By Beer'yani BaePublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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Let us talk about anal sex.

Yes, I said it.

Disclaimer: Please proceed only if you are old enough to be going through this. This article might not be suitable for work, bitches.

Anal. Anal. Anal.

Anal sex has a lot of taboos around it because straight people hate it. Because it is "supposed" to hurt. Or maybe that is just what they say because they hate the Gays? Maybe it does not hurt at all?

Anal sex is a bit of a taboo, but the truth is that a lot of people enjoy anal sex—but no one wants to talk about it. For men who enjoy penetrative anal sex, the biology behind it is that the prostate gland is located a few inches inside your behind.

From inside your rectum you can feel your prostate about 5 cm past your sphincter on your stomach side. Your prostate makes sure your urethra is closed off during an ejaculation (when you cum). That way, the sperm can only go in one direction: out through the penis. Your prostate also adds certain other substances to the sperm.

When the prostrate gland is stimulated, some people experience a divine elation through something called anal masturbation, which basically involves, stimulating the prostate gland. During anal sex the prostate is stimulated when a penis is constantly pushing against it.

Well as a hoe who has her hole hanging outside in, I can tell you that Anal does hurt sometimes but it is only when you are not prepared. And there are ways around it.

Communication is fucking key.

The only way to know what works and what doesn't is to be totally honest with you partner about what they're doing. If you and your partner are not 100 percent comfortable with it, it will never work. When you aren't comfortable you are naturally stressed and the body reacts to stress. The anal muscles can become tense when you are stressed.

Foreplay

Don't just fucking ram the dick inside the hole, but let things build up first. This goes for both the bottom and the top. Start off with kissing and turn on your partner before heading downstairs. Let blood rush to all the right places before proceeding.

Start small.

The whole point of anal play is to keep it simple before working your way up. To prepare a bottom for sex play, start with fingers, tongue, or a very small sex toy designed for butt play. Fingering really helps, it can be a part of your foreplay before the real action. Start off with one finger - make some way and then try it with two fingers and so on and so forth.

Lube it up bitches.

Get a good LUBE. This cannot be stressed enough. Yes anal can be done without lube but why would you just wanna have rice without any curry? (BAD EXAMPLE BUT YOU GET IT). Water based lubes tend to work better than silicone based gels.

Use a condom.

As much as all these penis shoving gentlemen like to do it raw, it should be known that the use of a condom with some lube can really reduce friction. This makes it a lot easier for the person receiving it.

Try it yourself.

In order to make your body used to anal sex, go around and play with yourself bitches. Get a dildo or if you are a broke ass hoe', get a cucumber wrap it up in some cling film and play with it. You can always use a condom on a cucumber and lube it up and shove it in your anus. Play with your body and learn to know it before you let anyone else play with it.

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Beer'yani Bae

The #Hoemoir of a homosexual Pakistani. The sexual escapades and birth of Beer'Yani Bae. The hot stories, the good stories, the bad stories and the most horrific stories.

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