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7 Tips Introducing you to the Exxxtreme Relationship

Bringing your relationship to the next level

By Summer DreamPublished 7 years ago 3 min read
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7 Tips introducing you to the Exxxtreme relationship

After being with your partner for an extended period of time you might need to "spice things up" Here are some tips as to how to bring your relationship to new heights of sensuality and pleasure.

Take Him to the Strip Club, and Make it a Surprise

Tell him you are going out to dinner, but instead take him to a strip club, buy him drinks and get lap dances together. You’d be surprised at how many strippers will not only respect you as a couple, but give you special treatment. This works best if you are into women yourself, but you don’t have to be bisexual to enjoy a beautiful nude woman grinding on you and your man, it can be quite the turn on if you just set aside your inhibitions for the time being. Don’t be afraid to let him enjoy it, remember he is going home with you.

Go to a Nude Beach

Most states have at least one nude beach, find it, and go. If you aren’t comfortable with public nudity just go topless or in a thong bikini. Encourage your man to go nude and enjoy the natural freedom we were all born for.

Random Lap Dances

Dinner in the oven? Start giving him a sexy lap dance. Is he playing video games and ignoring you, give him a lap dance. You can end it with a blowjob or let it lead into some wild and spontaneous sex.

  • rubs your tits in his face
  • grind your ass on his crotch
  • bend over in front of him and shake your ass
  • get creative

Surprise Him with Breakfast in Bed and Some Head

Wake up before him and cook breakfast then serve it to him in bed, don’t forget to make some for yourself so it’s a sharing experience. After you’ve finished your meal simply set the dishes aside, pull out his cock and get to sucking. You don’t have to expect anything in return, but if he is a generous lover he will reciprocate and even if he doesn’t you treated him to something very special.

Surprise Him with Random Blowjobs

What guy doesn’t love a blowjob? Seriously though, almost all men love them. What they love even more is not having to ask for one. Simply surprise him at a random time with some oral. Drop to your knees and slurp on that cock until he explodes.

Threesomes

*Go to a club with the intention of finding a person to join you for a threesome (female or male).

*As a couple, take another girl on a date.

*However you plan on doing it, just do it. This works best if you are bisexual or at the very least bi curious.

*Don’t force yourself to do something you aren’t ready for or willing to do.

*Make sure to set rules beforehand: no kissing, no oral, etc. Everyone is comfortable with different things, but make sure to set your rules beforehand and let the other person know the rules that are in place as well.

For the advanced...

Go to a Swingers Club

Self explanatory; remember to set rules beforehand and explain them to whomever you play with.

Even if you don’t engage in sexual interaction with others there just having sex in front of others can really spice things up.

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Summer Dream

Always swirled, rarely vanilla. How tos, DIY, kinky shorts, advice, skin care.

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