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Love Letters and Fantasies

Plans and Action

By ASHLEY SMITHPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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Despite being a couple for six months and living together for five months, my girlfriend and I still regularly exchange love letters. Though, as a modern couple there’s also love texts and even emails. We tend now to use them when we work and one leaves the house before the other returns. They tend to be a reminder of love and occasionally what we want to do to each other once in bed that evening.

Before we were a couple and living together, the exchanges were almost entirely sexual and we told each other what we wanted to do to each other. These were mainly texts at first and were a modern version of a dirty phone call, I suppose. They have been a good place to start as we have now done all the things we talked about for real bar one thing that I will get to later.

Initially, our relationship started through flirting and occasional sneaky physical contact at work. There would be some bottom to genital grinding, occasional grope, and even a few kisses. Anything beyond this was restricted to texts. We talked about being together, what sex we would have, and what future we planned, though as I said, it was mostly sex. At first, we talked about mutual masturbation and sex in various positions. As our first clandestine meetings were in my car, then we were restricted to giving each other a “hand” so to speak. We also managed a fair bit of oral sex as well, but this involved some bending and twisting that would impress a circus contortionist.

When we spent our first nights together, we could start with oral sex without being tied in knots and real sex as well. I could finally lick her properly while lying down between her legs. This was one thing I had written about many times. Also, the sex was brilliant, especially after talking about it for so long. The first few times were a bit swift but got better over time.

Once we moved in together, the messages still mentioned sex but a bit less as we can do it for real more regularly. The letters are also useful for making serious points about things to save face to face arguments as writing is quieter. The letters tend to remind each other how lucky we feel to be together and that we both want a big future together, also plenty of sex as well.

Now we have lived all that fantasies bar one. We try and add some more to our sex life in order to spice it up and have something to write about. This has included some light bondage for a fair while, and more recently, photography of each other naked or semi-naked. The pictures are also taken mid-sex, such as me between her legs mid-lick. The bondage usually includes dressing gown ties being used to bind hands while the other works on the body. Sometimes the person tied up is blindfolded for extra delights and surprises they can’t see approaching.

The remaining fantasy at the moment is photography and sex outdoors. I have done outdoor photos many times in the past, but for my girlfriend this is a new thing. Maybe next year when the weather warms up again we can give it a try. The sessions will probably include photography and sex depending on weather and location. Probably starting in a remote field and then getting braver over time. I used to pose for a dare site so am used to a bit of risk in my outdoor exploits.

I have saved all love notes we have exchanged and go back over them to see how far we have come in a short time. We will keep exchanging them and keep planning out future life and future sex life.

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ASHLEY SMITH

England based carer, live with my wife, her parents and 4 cats. will write for all areas but especially mental health and disability. though as stuff for filthy seems popular will try there . any comments, suggestions or requests considered

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